I didn't necessarily mean this as a bad thing, but as much as they liked to pretend Starfleet always tried to find peaceful solutions, an awful lot of the conflicts did end in phaser fights, especially once we got to DS9, Voyager, and Enterprise. At least most of the time they weren't the aggressors, so it's not like they went into every conflict, shooting first and asking questions later.
To be honest though, I am a big action fan, and it would get kind of a boring after a while if we never got any phaser fights or ship battles, so I don't mind it really.