I'm 60 years old. I've been on exactly one date. It did not go particularly well: she wasn't geekette enough for me, and I wasn't "knight in shining armor" enough for her.
And it's been long-established (TrekLit and writers' guides in the Prime Universe, and canon in the Abramsverse) that McCoy joined Starfleet out of a marriage that went sour.
And it's been long-established (TrekLit and writers' guides in the Prime Universe, and canon in the Abramsverse) that McCoy joined Starfleet out of a marriage that went sour.