See I like Enterprise I just have a problem with Archer; its kinda like we get two diff Archers at times. And not sure which one to follow.
That was my problem with Archer. The writers didn't seem to know
who they wanted him to be, which was particularly jarring in the early episodes when we were just getting to know the characters:
Archer the jerk:
-- Telling T'Pol he was restraining his urge to "knock her on her ass." OMG, what a line to give a character we saw for the first time 5 minutes ago!
-- T'Pol tells him the "coordinates are off by point 2 degrees" as the ship is leaving spacedock in Broken Bow. He responds with a frosty "thank you" and then ignores her. Anyone with half a brain cell would realize that being off by point 2 degrees is going to mean quite a bit by the time you get to Mars' orbit, nevermind Kronos.
-- The crabbiness when he doesn't like what he's hearing from his officers.
Then there was Archer the great guy:
-- Gently urging Hoshi in Fight or Flight to try to get through to the Axanar captain.
-- Talking Trip into calming down and lowering his weapon in Strange New World (so T'Pol can shoot him

).
-- Looking after Trip when they arrive at the shelter in Desert Crossing. As McCoy might say, "he has a great bedside manner."
Archer literally drove me crazy. Thank God for season 3. He got a major dose of focus and intensity that was finally -- finally! -- comprehendable. And the soul-crushing things he did gave us an incredible, complex and
matured character that I loved watching throughout the arc and again in S4.