^ Believe me, as much as you can't understand us, we can't understand you either.
I don't think either point of view is that hard to understand. I don't even think they're all that different.
One attraction of being immersed in a fictional universe is that it is a comforting and satisfying refuge from the universe we inhabit in our everyday lives. That does not mean that we are necessarily dissatisfied with our daily lives, or unhappy: merely that real life is extremely complex, sometimes drab, sometimes horrible, and having an alterative to that, or having a way to take a break from that is attractive to almost everyone at one time or another. Fiction provides comfort, excitement, entertainment, whatever is lacking.
The disagreement here is mostly due, I think, to different expectations as to how this particular fictional universe should be structured, with Lynx basically having a preference for a high degree of stability, whereas most of the other voices in this thread have a greater appetite for change and the unexpected in this particular case.
Is Lynx's attitude hard to understand? No, that is why we watch and rewatch our favorite movies and tv series: they are always the same, and that stability is reassuring and enjoyable.
Is the opposite attitude hard to understand? No, that is why following television shows and individual characters over time can be so entertaining: characters are created, live, evolve, change, die, and all of that serves as a sort of mirror for our own experiences.
Tie-in literature is by nature on the borderline between a sort of nostalgia for old stories and a desire for new stories, so it is not surprising that this sort of disagreement would occur over this particular material.