^^^Actually, I think you've definitely retained some of that optimism and love of humanity (albeit under a snarkier exterior). The touch of idealism is something that stood out about you, at least to me.
Aww, thanks.

^^^Actually, I think you've definitely retained some of that optimism and love of humanity (albeit under a snarkier exterior). The touch of idealism is something that stood out about you, at least to me.
The fact that the world and the people in it are less than perfect provides a reason for Christ to do what he did, but why would God make the world that way? I've yet to hear a very convincing answer to that, as simply citing free will and choice aren't enough, nor is it sensible to claim that we "need" saving because God views us as being worthless. That's just plain silly to me, and not consistent with a lot of the stuff I've read in the Bible over the years. And the sets of laws in the OT contain a very similar mechanic for how to atone for sin, so that God's people can set themselves straight when they screw up. As Nerys suggested, even if God operates on a higher level of "good" by nature of His being, that doesn't mean we aren't given value ourselves.
I don't know if this will satisfy you or not but it is the way I understand it and it may not be wholly correct:
When God created the world, He did so with the intention to have a relationship with other beings. Love is the ultimate motivation here and for it to be true it has to be willing. That leaves the door open for rejection. How can the relationship be true if it can't be rejected? Now God did know that we would reject Him and so had a plan already in place for people to be able to reconcile with Him: Christ. He did this because He still loved us even when we were unloveable. What is more impressive to you: someone who loves you when it is easy to love you or loves you even when it is very hard to love you?
That is kinda my understanding.
But that doesn't answer the question why did God created us sinful in the first place. You say that that's because He gave us free well, the possibility of choosing between right and wrong. But, being sinful, we can actually only choose wrong, because, as you said, no one is good enough. So, no free will either. So, since there could be only two possible state (always right = God; always wrong = us), the only logical answer is that He created us sinful with the express purpose of exercising absolute power over us, and punish/not punish us only by His decision (justice/mercy) and not our deeds (that are, as stated, inherently wrong). So, even if at the end we are all forgiven, it's just a big play on the part of God. Sorry for the long-winded post, but theology hurts my logic center.But the God you describe is hardly the God I believe in. The God I would teach my children about is their Father. He created us and the world we live in to give us experience and the ability to choose between right and wrong. He knew that we would fall short of perfection so he provided a Savior and gave us commandments and prophets so that we might know the way back to him. I believe that he will reward us the maximum that he can and take into account everything when judging us in the end, judging us less harshly than many judge themselves.
I understand that. I agree that nobody is perfectly good: it would be absurd to expect that. But the point of the discussion is that nobody is good. That's self-defeating.I really can't see how think kind of self-pitying, self-defeating attitude could bring any good to the world.
Only if you take it to a flagellant's extreme. For me, recognizing that I cannot be perfectly good on my own has exactly the opposite effect--it makes it a bit easier to let go of the self-blaming, self-defeating attitudes. Do I take responsibility for my actions? Absolutely. But must I beat myself up over things past? No, my focus should be in the moment.
(Am I great at accomplishing this? Not always, but I try.)
Really, stop assuming that we don't follow your religion because of some terrible experience with churches and priests. I had none, and the same is true for most atheists. I oppose your religion (and any other religion) because to me they don't make sense.You must have had some horrible experiences with churches, I am sorry. It is only illogical and vain because that is your point of view.
Because there are other people than myself in the world, people I love and respect, and my purpose is to make the world a better place for them and all humanity, even when I'm long gone.From my point of view, why get up in the morning, go to work, deal with life in a patient way, be kind, be selfless, be anything good if at the end of the day it didn't mean something. Not just to me but to God?
If you ask me the illogical and vain premise is the one that says that there is no divine spark and (you may or may not believe this) but that when we die we die and that is all. Then why be good, what would I be building? What purpose would it have?
Well, that because there are quite a few atheists in here, and the board is secular in nature. I suppose that if I would be beaten with a six-foots long stick if I would post my opinions at a Christian forum.Poor choice of words, I don't mean hostile towards me. I agree, it has been very civil. I just mean that when I throw an idea out there, I am just surprised at how easily it is summarily dismissed. And how quickly and totally the God-less ideas are supported.
So hostile to the idea, not to me.
As other said, I have the universe itself to be a testimony of its own existence. It does require an explanation of its existence, but not necessarily a justification.Besides, there is a lot of basis for a belief in God, even all the wonders and mysteries of science and the universe can make one ponder and ask "Why? and by Who?"
A believer at least has that "poorly written, ill-conceived and contradictory novel" as well as the witness of all things to say that there is a God, even the universe itself. You have nothing to back it up other than your own word.
That's actually fuzzy. Some parts of society are becoming more secular indeed. If secularization itself is immoral in your book, then your assertion is logical (even if I don't agree with you). But if you are talking about crime and unrest, actually our time is one of the most safe and prosperous in the entire existence of humanity. The "good ol' days" weren't really good. You are just getting old.? Just because society is deteriorating doesn't prove there is no God, it merely proves that people are straying away from him.
Society isn't deteriorating, it is growing more complex and integrated every day.
I respectfully disagree. Society is deteriorating. It is growing more depraved and immoral every day.
No one is a good person.
Just because society is deteriorating doesn't prove there is no God, it merely proves that people are straying away from him.
Society is deteriorating. It is growing more depraved and immoral every day.
Reading your posts, I'm reminded that my one regret about turning away from religion as a teen was the boundless optimism, love of life and humanity, and pure happiness that my faith used to fill me with. I'm glad to see you guys still have that though.
Wow, I am amazed. I don't even know what to say for the moment. The hostility to a belief in God in this thread is beyond what I imagined.
That's because religion isn't needed for many of the things you describe.Poor choice of words, I don't mean hostile towards me. I agree, it has been very civil. I just mean that when I throw an idea out there, I am just surprised at how easily it is summarily dismissed. And how quickly and totally the God-less ideas are supported.
I roll my eyes at that kind of thing to, but while it doesn't disprove the existence of a higher power, it does prove how contradictory the source material is, and how silly it is for fundamentalists to talk the way they do about the Bible being the absolute word of God which must be followed to the letter and so on and so forth. In that way it's just as fair for him to quote mine this as it was for you to quote mine something else to try to make your point about indoctrinating children, and how you saw it as wrong to not do so.I had to laugh when you quote the Bible to try to discredit my religion.
It doesn't "prove" anything, other than that the Judeo-Christian ideal of God probably is just that - an ideal. It also underlines the idea that God helps those who help themselves, which is to say instead of praying, one should get up off their ass and do something about their situation, but I digress.But ANYWAY, what problems are people waiting around for God to solve? Just because society is deteriorating doesn't prove there is no God, it merely proves that people are straying away from him.
I respectfully disagree. Society is deteriorating. It is growing more depraved and immoral every day.
Reading your posts, I'm reminded that my one regret about turning away from religion as a teen was the boundless optimism, love of life and humanity, and pure happiness that my faith used to fill me with. I'm glad to see you guys still have that though.
No, I don't see a problem with sexuality being more open and accessible. I also happen to like porn since I love women.haha! I am pretty optimistic, but a lot of things are getting worse. Pornography used to be a back alley kind of thing. Now I can find it at the click of the mouse. But then again, I bet some of you don't see the problem with that either.
Morality is entirely subjective.But while some things are going down, like morals in some instances, some things are going back up,
I don't really have any "horrible" experiences, other than from being badgered by stuck-up religious types. Mostly the reason I stopped going along with religion was because there were too many logical flaws, and because the idea of sitting in church while someone tells you something you can read and interpret for yourself didn't make sense to me either.And to the other posters. The reason I assume bad experience with religion, is because most of the atheists I meet outside of this forum do cite horrible experiences with religion or a priest, etc as why they no longer believe.
But ANYWAY, what problems are people waiting around for God to solve? Just because society is deteriorating doesn't prove there is no God, it merely proves that people are straying away from him.
High levels of organic atheism are strongly correlated with high levels of societal health, such as low homicide rates, low poverty rates, low infant mortality rates and low illiteracy rates, as well as high levels of educational attainment per capita income, and gender equality.
-The Cambridge Companion to Atheism
I understand that. I agree that nobody is perfectly good: it would be absurd to expect that. But the point of the discussion is that nobody is good. That's self-defeating.
I believe that whatever good is in any of us, comes from God,
I believe that whatever good is in any of us, comes from God,
I find this worldview pretty hideous, to be perfectly honest.
I find this worldview pretty hideous, to be perfectly honest.I believe that whatever good is in any of us, comes from God,
hideous? To believe that a higher being instills in us decency and good?
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Pornography used to be a back alley kind of thing. Now I can find it at the click of the mouse.
Pornography used to be a back alley kind of thing. Now I can find it at the click of the mouse.
It seems to me that what you are suggesting here is that the ease with which pornography can be accessed is due to the decline in morality, decency and so on, which can itself be attributed to an absence of traditional, religion based views.
Is that an accurate summation of your argument? I don't want to misunderstand this issue.
Morality is entirely subjective because what's moral for one person is not necessarily moral for another and vice versa with immorality.I am sorry but morality is not as subjective as you think.
They tend to be interdependent I find, in as much as I like porn because I like women.Liking porn and liking women are two different things.
First off, only married men count? Secondly, believe it or not, there are women who like porn too, and there are women who like being in porn who will give you an earful if you try to talk down to them by saying porn objectifies women.Just ask any married men on this board and see if their wives are ok with them looking at pornography.
It can be if one partner isn't paying enough attention to their partner because of it, but in many cases watching porn together can make for a healthy and interesting sex life.By and large, it is very destructive to marriage relationships.
All of the "good" teachings in it are pretty much just common sense anyway - treat others as you would want to be treated, don't murder people, don't steal their stuff, don't lie and set them up to get in trouble with the law - none of which require religion or belief in a higher power.Well, I too tire of "fundamentalists" who say that the Bible is infallible. That isn't true in my eyes, but it doesn't have to be. It doesn't say anywhere in its text that it is. It does however still contain God's teachings and a sincere study of it would do any man or woman a lot of good.
I am sure it is drastically more complicated than that. But if you want to give it a quick summary, then yeah, basically, I think a measure of decline in morality, and a snap shot of our departure from traditional values can be seen in how widespread and acceptable pornography has become.
Just ask any married men on this board and see if their wives are ok with them looking at pornography.
If that's really the case, and not a misunderstanding on your part, these people will return to religion in some form eventually; a bad experience with religion is reason for turning away from religion not becoming an Atheist. Real Atheists are Rationalists.The reason I assume bad experience with religion, is because most of the atheists I meet outside of this forum do cite horrible experiences with religion or a priest, etc as why they no longer believe.
As for "pornography," this is a blanket term for
physical beauty and eroticism. It can't be immoral, because for something to
be immoral some harm has to come of it.
Morality is entirely subjective.
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