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Pushing Religion

Proverbs 22:6

I think the evidence from this thread, and from life in general, proves this not to be the case. :)

But that wasn't my question, I want to know why it would be a crime and a travesty to not teach your child your religion. I'm a liberal, liberal values are important to me and help me be the person that I am. I am not going to explain liberal values to my kids and why I am not a conservative, largely because they would not understand it. When they are 16 I would gladly debate the issues with them and if they take a different stance than me then so be it. I don't have a need for my children to be like me, I want them to be something new.

It is the same for me when it comes to religion, it is a very complicated subject and it helps to define who a person is. Children just cannot grasp it correctly. Teaching a child to believe in a god (or teaching him to not believe in a god) is about as difficult as teaching a dog how to roll over. It makes you proud and you can show it off to your friends, but at the end of the day you have just trained your child to be subservient to your desires.

Subservient to your desires?
I don't think so. My parents taught me to believe in God since... forever.
Sure, when I was 5, I didn't understand all the ramifications of a God and what it all meant. To me, God was someone, distant yet someone to whom I directed important pleas like protecting my family, helping to find a lost toy, etc.

At 12 God was a little bit more in depth. I understood that I would be accountable for choices I made.

at 14/15, as my beliefs were confronted by outside pressures, I realized that I would need to make a choice, was this really me? was this really for me?
I bet a lot of people face that decision and of course come up with different answers.

Probably because of my experiences, God and Christ was never hard for me to understand, even at the age of about 7. I may have grown with more understanding of the intricacies of God and morality but my understanding of God as a person has not change much since I was a child.
 
No one is a good person.
See? This is exactly the kind sentiment that Unicron talked about and RyanKCR told it was "false" and "very ill-informed". Get your stuff together, people! :lol:
I really can't see how think kind of self-pitying, self-defeating attitude could bring any good to the world.
 
No one is a good person.
See? This is exactly the kind sentiment that Unicron talked about and RyanKCR told it was "false" and "very ill-informed". Get your stuff together, people! :lol:
I really can't see how think kind of self-pitying, self-defeating attitude could bring any good to the world.

The "no one is good" is correct. What Unicron had incorrect was that God decided if you are getting into Heaven based on how good you are and how merciful God wanted to be in your situation dependent on how you asked, or something like that. A lot of people believe that but that is incorrect.
 
No one is a good person.
See? This is exactly the kind sentiment that Unicron talked about and RyanKCR told it was "false" and "very ill-informed". Get your stuff together, people! :lol:
I really can't see how think kind of self-pitying, self-defeating attitude could bring any good to the world.

The "no one is good" is correct. What Unicron had incorrect was that God decided if you are getting into Heaven based on how good you are and how merciful God wanted to be in your situation dependent on how you asked, or something like that. A lot of people believe that but that is incorrect.

I think that Unicron said exactly this: it doesn't matter how good you are, you are still not good enough for God. So (I infer) salvation/forgiveness is all upon God and his mercy (and not his justice, because by justice we are all guilty and deserve to be punished).

I know the gist of it is that Christ died and rose again, and that without it there would be no forgiveness (even if it escapes me exactly why it's so). So we are all forgiven? (wow, that's cool!) Only Christians are forgiven? (not so cool for people like me, but I can understand it.) Only good Christians are forgiven? But no one is good, so there are no good Christians. It's all very confusing to me. :confused:
 
That is a false representation of fundamental Christianity. Either you knew that or was very ill-informed. Yes we are not good enough on our own to be accepted by God. That is why Christ paid our sin debt. Once you acknowldge that and trust in Christ for that, then you are a Christian. Anything beyond that may be viewed differently but is not a basis for salvation. That is why I may disagree with someone not recognizing that the gifts of the Spirit are active today but agree they are a Christian if they follow the above I mentioned about Christ and His death and Resurrection. It all comes back to Christ and His death.

* shrugs * It may be that I am indeed misinformed, as I know that not all fundamentalists are extreme in their interpretations. As I said, my church never heavily emphasized some of the same ideas, such as hell and punishment, because the Presbyterian doctrine isn't like that. The problem I see with the notion of Christ's sacrifice is, it's only relevant to a sinful world. The fact that the world and the people in it are less than perfect provides a reason for Christ to do what he did, but why would God make the world that way? I've yet to hear a very convincing answer to that, as simply citing free will and choice aren't enough, nor is it sensible to claim that we "need" saving because God views us as being worthless. That's just plain silly to me, and not consistent with a lot of the stuff I've read in the Bible over the years. And the sets of laws in the OT contain a very similar mechanic for how to atone for sin, so that God's people can set themselves straight when they screw up. As Nerys suggested, even if God operates on a higher level of "good" by nature of His being, that doesn't mean we aren't given value ourselves.

Well, keeping the off topic ness to a minimum :) Here is a rough and quick answer.
Yes I guess you can say that salvation and forgiveness are the same thing in some ways. God forgives our sins, so we can be saved or receive salvation. Yeah I guess it is kind of the same.

God didn't create man sinless, as I understand. He sent us here to choose, to learn and to progress and experience. He created Adam and Eve, who lived in a perfect world, but choose to disobey and then they "fell", fulfilling the purposes of God. So man became sinful and everyone since Adam and Eve has committed sins and since God loves us and wants us to learn and return to him, he provided a Savior that if we repent we could receive salvation.

So basically the short answer to your question is that God didn't make us sinless because it would have removed our agency. He gives us the ability to choose between right and wrong, but is also willing to forgive when we do wrong, because he knew we would at least occasionally mess up.

make sense? :)

I think the problem for many non-Christians with the story in Genesis is, the doctrine of original sin which has evolved in Christianity (and is stronger in some sects than others) assumes that Adam and Eve were punished for making an informed choice, the way you or I would be if we chose to do something stupid or wrong and got caught for it. But the details given in the Bible, both in their actions and in how God made the garden, strongly imply that it couldn't have been an informed choice. And thus God's "discipline" makes little to no sense.

I think that Unicron said exactly this: it doesn't matter how good you are, you are still not good enough for God. So (I infer) salvation/forgiveness is all upon God and his mercy (and not his justice, because by justice we are all guilty and deserve to be punished).
Yes, that is how I said it. This sort of God can hardly seem just, since all of the factors are against us. Choice can't give us responsibility, because God's already made up His mind. And as I said above, this is not the case in many sections of the Bible - the OT is pretty clear on the basic notion that God, being good, values the good things His people do and rewards them accordingly. Job's one such book I can think of off the top of my head, but there are plenty of examples. And the woman Jesus saved from being stoned for adultery, and told to embrace the good she was capable of ("go and sin no more.")

Bottom line for me is, if God made me in His image and is supposedly an embodiment of good, if He is our standard in that regard (or at least our ideal standard), then it follows that He should respect the good I've done in life, and that which I've tried to do. That should ultimately matter a lot more than how much I doubt or believe, if those things do not affect my capacity to do good. A god who arbitrarily made me just so he could condemn as an inferior is not one in whom I can believe or have faith.
 
The fact that the world and the people in it are less than perfect provides a reason for Christ to do what he did, but why would God make the world that way? I've yet to hear a very convincing answer to that, as simply citing free will and choice aren't enough, nor is it sensible to claim that we "need" saving because God views us as being worthless. That's just plain silly to me, and not consistent with a lot of the stuff I've read in the Bible over the years. And the sets of laws in the OT contain a very similar mechanic for how to atone for sin, so that God's people can set themselves straight when they screw up. As Nerys suggested, even if God operates on a higher level of "good" by nature of His being, that doesn't mean we aren't given value ourselves.

I don't know if this will satisfy you or not but it is the way I understand it and it may not be wholly correct:

When God created the world, He did so with the intention to have a relationship with other beings. Love is the ultimate motivation here and for it to be true it has to be willing. That leaves the door open for rejection. How can the relationship be true if it can't be rejected? Now God did know that we would reject Him and so had a plan already in place for people to be able to reconcile with Him: Christ. He did this because He still loved us even when we were unloveable. What is more impressive to you: someone who loves you when it is easy to love you or loves you even when it is very hard to love you?

That is kinda my understanding.
 
It is true that rejection can be an important part of a relationship, since relationships are anything but simple. And I agree that love must be willing, from both sides. But to create a relationship that you know will fail, and to punish your partner for that failure, (on the grounds that they weren't "willing" enough) is not an act motivated by love. I think where some of the Christian interpretations fail is when they describe God as being less interested in a genuine relationship, and as more of a "see what you made me do!" entity. I have an uncle who has not taken good care of himself and made many mistakes, and has alienated many of the rest in the family to some degree through his selfishness. A small part of it is probably biological, as he suffers from bipolar disorder, but a lot of is his own personality. And yet, for all of that, for all of the ways he has made our relationships with him more difficult, he is still not considered to be "unloveable." He's not that bad of an individual, and there was a time in his life when he was more reasonable and responsible than he is now. We still love him and haven't rejected him out of hand.

I do believe there is some truth to the argument that humans are naturally imperfect, though not necessarily a religious truth. We're very imperfect. But I also know from my own experiences that we have the capacity to do good, regardless of personal faiths or religions. I've seen it every time I've helped with the homeless at church, and every day at work (from the good customers at least :lol:). It's what balances out our penchant for stupidity, and personally I see nothing wrong with aspiring to be as good as you can be.
 
Well, while there are certainly some religions that would take away the right of a child to choose for himself, It would be a crime and a travesty to wait until my children are old enough to debate and think for themselves before I started teaching them.

How? What point is there even in doing it if they aren't even capable of understanding the concepts yet? And that being the case, how is it a crime and a travesty? Oh, not a crime, by the way, not in the US anyway. ;)

Well, because as a parent I have the responsibility to raise my child to be a good person.
That doesn't require religion.

Doesn't mean that they will choose to be a good person, but I will waste no time in letting them know that some things are right and some things are wrong. In my experience, there is no better way that I could do that then by raising them to believe as I believe and doing it in a loving way and not in a sadistic or manipulating way.
Unfortunately that more often than not is mutually exclusive with teaching them that an all powerful, all knowing being will send them to burn in hell unless they are a "good person". Which, as I said above, being a good person doesn't require religion, it just requires empathy for your fellow human beings, and if nothing else a healthy respect for one's parents.

Morality without religion is a somewhat difficult thing to teach.
Not really, agnostics and atheists have been doing it for a long time now. As I said, fear of a magical being and eternal damnation is not a requirement of morality, only respect for other human beings. And if all else fails, fear of the parent dealing out much less abstract punishment than hell does in a pinch - worked fine for me.

Not impossible, but religion often gives a base or reason for the morality.
Again, not really, at least not in my opinion and experience. Religion says you should be moral because your eternal and undying soul will suffer unimaginable pain and torture if you aren't, and that God will lovingly embrace you as the good child if you behave yourself, though you have to wait until death to find out if you've been "moral" enough to wind up in God's embrace or with Satan's trident up your ass. A humanist philosophy doesn't threaten anything, it simply says you should respect and empathize with your fellow human being because we are all human, and we are all riding the same hunk of dirt through space. Respect based on how you yourself would like to be treated rather than on fear of punishment. Following the golden rule doesn't require knowledge of Jesus quoting it, or belief that he was anything more than a Jewish philosopher, or even belief that he existed at all as anything more than an idea.
 
Well, I leave for a few hours and come back with about a page of posts to respond to, but based on the your responses, I either did a poor job of explaining my point, or many of your experiences or views of religion are so jaded that I will not get through.

But the God you describe is hardly the God I believe in. The God I would teach my children about is their Father. He created us and the world we live in to give us experience and the ability to choose between right and wrong. He knew that we would fall short of perfection so he provided a Savior and gave us commandments and prophets so that we might know the way back to him. I believe that he will reward us the maximum that he can and take into account everything when judging us in the end, judging us less harshly than many judge themselves.

I will teach them about a God who wants us to be good, not because if not we are going to hell, but because he wants the best for us and wants us to fulfill our potential.
Motivation via the religious route is not "do good or go to hell", to me it is do good, because you are a child of God and your heritage is divine."

It is uplifting to know your true nature.
 
No one is a good person.
See? This is exactly the kind sentiment that Unicron talked about and RyanKCR told it was "false" and "very ill-informed". Get your stuff together, people! :lol:
I really can't see how think kind of self-pitying, self-defeating attitude could bring any good to the world.

Only if you take it to a flagellant's extreme. For me, recognizing that I cannot be perfectly good on my own has exactly the opposite effect--it makes it a bit easier to let go of the self-blaming, self-defeating attitudes. Do I take responsibility for my actions? Absolutely. But must I beat myself up over things past? No, my focus should be in the moment.

(Am I great at accomplishing this? Not always, but I try.)
 
I think all the back and forth in this thread about "what my god is like" is a pretty good indication of why we shouldn't be confusing young children with this kind of subject matter. If adults can't agree, then children certainly can't make an informed choice.
 
I think all the back and forth in this thread about "what my god is like" is a pretty good indication of why we shouldn't be confusing young children with this kind of subject matter. If adults can't agree, then children certainly can't make an informed choice.

Hmm, with that in mind can we do the same with evolution, too? And what about sex ed?
 
I think all the back and forth in this thread about "what my god is like" is a pretty good indication of why we shouldn't be confusing young children with this kind of subject matter. If adults can't agree, then children certainly can't make an informed choice.

I don't mean this to be a back and forth.

But many posters were listing reasons why they thought a religious background when teaching children was ill-advised or unnecessary.

I am just simply trying to tell them that religious instruction is not always "that way"
 
I think all the back and forth in this thread about "what my god is like" is a pretty good indication of why we shouldn't be confusing young children with this kind of subject matter. If adults can't agree, then children certainly can't make an informed choice.

Hmm, with that in mind can we do the same with evolution, too? And what about sex ed?

You seem to be equating Biology and Religion. That doesn't make any sense to me.
 
I think all the back and forth in this thread about "what my god is like" is a pretty good indication of why we shouldn't be confusing young children with this kind of subject matter. If adults can't agree, then children certainly can't make an informed choice.

Hmm, with that in mind can we do the same with evolution, too? And what about sex ed?

You seem to be equating Biology and Religion. That doesn't make any sense to me.

while evolution is a matter of biology or science, sex ed is more or less political rather than anything else.
 
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