No worries. But no. If people know me, I generally am open minded and not condescending or sexist. But I can't control how someone perceives a comment. In truth, its very hard to get context without actually speaking with someone. The visual ques and body language help us determine tone in conversation. I wonder how many crazy arguments on here have developed from perceived slights, or simple miscommunication. Anyhow, none of my posts are dead serious, I mean this is escapism and supposed to be fun. Whether bitching about the series, the ships, and art, or praising it. We should definitely as fans take ourselves less seriously. I mean, we are all United in the love of a series or subject. We may disagree, but we all became fans for a reason.
I agree, but with a proviso. No matter how much fun we draw from the site and fandom they doesn't exist in a bubble. Things have become politically loaded within sci fi and we're never going to avoid there being a political element to interpretations of the work onscreen. Trek was always thus deliberately and SW arguably has always been primed for being seen in such a light.
As for the comment, Neroon has acted in an official capacity and clearly Possum has let it slide so there's really not much for me to add. That being said as a gentle suggestion I've a very dry sense of humour at the best of times and know what it's like for that sometimes to get misinterpreted (particularly by Americans I've noticed) but there are levels of familiarity which I only use with certain people in here, primarily ones I know IRL, away from the boards or at least in pm.