Let me be very clear: If you and I were in a room in person and you responded to an interview about grief and loss by talking about how you don't like her hair, I would have immediately confronted you for it, in person.
But we're not in that room discussing that subject matter.
We're on a online forum discussing "SNW getting too goofy".
You just didn't like the fact that I sourced a pic from that interview where she talks about that issue.
Then you blew up on the fact that I picked that screen shot instead of one of many other images I could've found on google.
But you're fixated on that screen shot from that interview.
If you can't demonstrate the bare minimum of respect for one stranger's pain, who else's suffering will you ignore and disrespect?
I respect that fact that she's suffering and offer my condolences, but she isn't here, she isn't participating in this thread.
We're not discussing her personal life.
We're on a trek messageboard thread talking about "SNW being goofy".
We're not discussing her personal life in any way.
You're the one who even brought up her personal life.
Which isn't even relevant to this thread.
Not per se, but it can be, and it was in the manner you did it. Context, as they say, is king.
Context can also be misinterpreted or interpreted by your own lens / bias.
Which in this case, you have.
It's not the fact you talked about her hair. It's the fact you implied she had an obligation to be pretty, and it's the fact you did it in response to an interview about grief.
Every actor on a show has a obligation to be pretty. It's what Hollywood sells in their product, doesn't really matter if it's this show, or any other show. Go around the world, look at every countries equivalent of "Hollywood". It's how Hollywood and all big media companies make their $$$.
The fact a actor needs to be aesthetically pleasing is a common factor.
Doesn't really matter which gender or age or any other factor.
It's a common baseline in the business.
And the fact that it was a screen shot from that interview is what made you blow up instead of just any other pic I could randomly source is what set you off.