Here are the rules that those users broke: ADULT CONTENT: "In order to protect those posters who are minors, you cannot post NC-17 or R-Rated material anywhere on the BBS..." It isn't a "stretch" to say that discussion of Chase "sitting on someone's face" for sexual pleasure would be considered R-rated. I believe it would be considered so by many, if not most, people. FLAMES: "Obviously, you cannot insult other people." It sure seemed to Chase and I that the comments made by a couple users specifically broke this rule, because they were quite obviously intended as insults (not sure how one could reasonably argue that specific negative comments about one's appearance are not "insults"). Saying "I don't really find T'Bonz attractive," is one thing. Saying "T'Bonz is looking bad these days... hasn't aged well... looking haggard..." is an insult. Seems to us that you're saying we "cannot have it both ways," and that if people are allowed to post complimentary things, they're also going to post insulting things. But your rules expressly forbid this, for good reason. So yes -- Chase, and any other user of this board, can certainly have it "both ways." People are allowed to be nice, obviously, but if they insult another member, they get censured. It says so in your own rules. I'm really not sure how that is confusing, or open to interpretation. Maybe we're just really out of touch, and unprovoked nasty comments made by people today are no longer classified as "insults," perhaps. If that's the case, then that's really too bad.