I do get what you are trying to say. If we compare it with Game of Thrones then Brienne (for excample) would be a physically strong character, while Sansa would be mentally strong; very feminine, not a fighter at all but still unbroken after all she has gone through (and one of my favourite characters for it). A character, male or female does not have to be a fighter to be "strong".
However I don't see mental strength with Jadzia you write about her struggling with defending her own identity against the voices of Dax's previous hosts, but we hardly saw that with Jadzia, that was really more Ezri's struggle. Part of the problem I have with her is that she seems to have no struggle, she's just good at everything and beautiful and perfectly comfortable in her own skin.
That's admirable in a real person, but for a fictional character it can make them a tad bit boring, especially if she is surrounded by all these much more interesting an layered characters.
However it is alright that you like her, I just didn't lappriciate the comment about people not liking her because she's a woman.
However I don't see mental strength with Jadzia you write about her struggling with defending her own identity against the voices of Dax's previous hosts, but we hardly saw that with Jadzia, that was really more Ezri's struggle. Part of the problem I have with her is that she seems to have no struggle, she's just good at everything and beautiful and perfectly comfortable in her own skin.
That's admirable in a real person, but for a fictional character it can make them a tad bit boring, especially if she is surrounded by all these much more interesting an layered characters.
However it is alright that you like her, I just didn't lappriciate the comment about people not liking her because she's a woman.