The thing about that is...the child was in danger regardless of whether Kira did or didn't go after Silarin. He was trying to kill her, after all, and I don't doubt that if she'd been in the O'Brien's quarters with Furel and Lupaza he'd still have blown the window out, baby or no baby.
What really was her alternative?
I s'pose that's true but, again, the lack of seeing any sort of consequences for her actions is what hurts here. The ending has a sort of "Oh, well, she got the bad guy, so I guess all's well in the end" feeling to it, which shouldn't be the case considering how reckless she did act. Granted, they were probably short on time, and it's not like it ruins the episode or anything. It simply comes off unfinished.
It comes off as unfinished for me, but for other reasons. I am not surprised or shocked that Kira would give the "you were all targets" speech to a crazy guy bent on revenge who's killed her friends and trying to kill her, and I am sure she does believe that on one level, and that it's what she tells herself, but I'm not buying it for a moment that this is the whole story and that deep inside she doesn't feel guilty about anything she did in the resistance. It was as early as season 1 that she admitted she felt bad about some of the things she had done, but now nothing is bothering her, after she got the bad guy? No, I don't believe it, and it's not true of the character who said in the second episode of the show that she wasn't proud of some of the things she had done, and who said the previous season that the kind of life she had led as a terrorist "eats away at your soul".
The Darkness and the Light is an episode that just cries out for a follow-up, and it never got it. If it did, it might have been a really great episode.
After the 4 seasons of BSG, I am starting to think that this episode actually reveals Ron Moore's biggest flaw as a writer, which would become more pronounced and obvious in BSG, in later seasons in particular. Let me get this straight, he is one of my favorite SF TV writers, and at his best he's written some really great episodes, but he has a couple of big flaws: his biggest flaw as a showrunner is the lack of planning, and his biggest flaw as a writer is the habit of making characters do things that he thinks will be edgy and shocking - even when it doesn't get a proper follow-up and leaves you with the feeling that the character is free of any consequences only because they're a main character, which still doesn't explain even the lack of any visible soul-searching, remorse, torment you'd expect from the character in the next episodes, where you'd expect it to be mentioned, but it's not, because... well, the writers just forget about it or don't care to mention it. The ending of TDATL is a milder case of this, compared to all the time he did that in BSG. I remember all the times in his podcasts when he was gushing about scenes that made me want to slap a character: "Oh, isn't Roslin wonderful, she just said 'if I wanted to airlock a baby I would say it' ha ha I love her", etc. The most awful example has to be
- I can just see RDM being happy because it was so unexpected and made a mostly sympathetic character into a crazy murderer, while killing off unceremoniously a character who had become quite popular at that point. He must have been thinking "Oh how cool is this, none of them expected this to happen, I'm really pushing the boundaries again, ain't I?"...nevermind that it was just random, and that the lack of any consequences made no sense whatsoever, and definitely ruined the character of
OMG, I am really speaking like a disappointed BSG fan still hurting from season 4.

I guess I could compare my attitude to RDM to a relationship that has come to the point where you're really wondering if the breakup is inevitable: you really liked a guy and thought he was so great, you were captivated by his charm and wit and his good qualities, and you were willing to overlook his annoying habits and traits, which seemed tiny and unimportant... but then, with time, those annoying traits become more prounonced, they bother you more and more, until they start to overshadow his good traits, and even the things he did in the past that you were willing to forgive at the time now look much worse to you... until you realize you might need to dump him...
