I was actually paraphrasing an article on screenrant -- one of SEVERAL with approximately the same theme...
I did warn you, however, that the act of coming to the defense of people acting like angry ten-year-olds leads only to hilarity. You are now in the position of defending an article you didn't read, written by a person whose name you do not know...
Well, whose fault is that?
You are the one who chose to provide only a paraphrase, not a direct quote nor a link, nor (until now) even a suggestion of the source. It's not like anyone could have defended the original if they wanted to.
lawman said:
Okay, your own example of what's "indefensible"... does not support your point.
Nor was it meant to.
Your own example (paraphrased to suit your argument, even) was not intended to support your argument? Uh-huh.
Most people, when they don't like something, decline to partake in this thing they don't like and move on to a product they DO like.
I don't think you're in any position to make generalizations about how "most people" behave, but even if you were right...
who gives a fuck? There is no reason to hold "most people" up as a standard here. We're talking specifically about fans. Whether it's fans of a restaurant (as in Jaime's example), or of a TV franchise (as with Trek), or of a movie franchise (as with Star Wars), they are by definition a self-selected
subset of people, who care about the object of interest more than "most people."
Moreover, when you're talking about a movie, as with your TLJ example, the behavior you advocate isn't a viable option. If you consider the movie as a thing in itself, divorced from the context of its franchise, then you've already paid for it and seen it; there's no way to decline it and "move on" because the experience is done. Conversely, if you consider the movie
in the context of its franchise, it's just one installment among many, so deciding to "move on" from the entire franchise because the latest part of it disappointed would be a precipitately disproportionate judgment; it makes far more sense to voice the reasons for one's disappointment in the hope that future installments will be more to one's liking.
But actively seeking out an audience to air grievances with this product -- going out of your way to express your disapproval to as many people as you can, even those who didn't actually ask your opinion on the matter -- is not the same area.
And a perfectly reasonable one. Why does this bother you so much? You really seem to think that people should just be grateful for whatever they get, or otherwise shut up and go away. That's not how the world works, nor should it be. I think you were onto something earlier when you described your rather draconian upbringing as the foundation of this attitude.
The point of THIS post was that a negative reaction to a product that is unrelated to the quality thereof generally has more to do with the expectations of the user than the actual product. ... The negative reaction is based on what happened OUTSIDE the film in the minds of its audience.
Here's a suggestion... stop trying to read the minds of your interlocutors. You can't actually do it, and besides, it's irrelevant. Try responding to the
substance of what they say, and stop worrying about the
motivations for what they say. Either you agree with the argument that Luke Skywalker was mischaracterized in TLJ or you don't; either way, you should be able to explain why. Either you agree that DSC fits logically into Trek's previously established "prime" timeline or you don't; either way, you should be able to explain why. If anyone is really just saying "I expected something different!" without any reasons why, well, then, that should be a pretty easy argument to rebut. But passing judgments on (your impressions of) people's
emotions is entirely outside the scope of the discussion.
For instance...
-- because it was 1) still fresh in my mind and 2) highly indicative of the phenomenon of petulant whining by the butthurt minority of Star Wars fans.
...how about a new rule? The first person to dismiss his opponents in a discussion as "butthurt" automatically loses.
After all, that is not an argument, it's an insult. And then
you're the one slinging the "vitriol" you profess to dislike so much.
Now, if you would like to inject yourself further into this discussion and follow the breadcrumbs that lead to this point, perhaps you'd like to weigh in on the difference between a criticism and a complaint? Again: there is a reason why Professional Critic is a thing while Professional Complainer is not.
As I've already said... for the purposes of the discussion at hand,
there is no difference. To be best of my knowledge, nobody in this discussion is actually a professional critic. Apparently you think that means we should all shut up and sit down, but that suggests a fundamental misunderstanding of what fandom (and these forums) are all about.
The right to speak does not imply the right to be heard, particularly by people who do not think you have anything positive to contribute.
Then stop listening, already. But there's really no point in hanging around telling people "hey, I don't like listening to you!"
Now, on a separate tangent...
Can the same kindness be extended to show production staff? As a general rule, mocking writers and the like is far more objectionable in discussion to me ("worst writers in Hollywood" "Not real Star Trek fans," etc..) than criticizing the show itself.
I'm not sure what "same kindness" you're talking about... supporting people's right to express themselves freely? I've never opposed it. And FWIW I haven't "mocked" anybody; the only people I've named as among the worst writers in Hollywood are Kurtzman and Goldsman... and I meant it quite sincerely, tongue not remotely in cheek, and I explained why, with examples.
If you'd like a counterpoint of the people I think are among the
best writers in Hollywood, I could offer that too, FWIW... in no particular order, the list would include Joss Whedon, and Aaron Sorkin, and J. Michael Straczynski, and Woody Allen, and Charlie Kaufman, and Wes Anderson, and David Simon, and David E. Kelley, just off the top of my head. They write in a wide range of styles and genres, but if I were to look for commonalities, I'd say they're all writers who do fantastic, emotionally evocative dialogue, who craft thought-provoking stories, and who handle ensemble casts with finesse.