Didnt we find out on ENTERPRISE that sometime in the future, phlox finds a way to get around that?
I believe it was E^2 - a scan of Lorian's genome reveals that not only is he the son of Trip and T'Pol, but that Phlox was the one who did the genetic reworking necessary to make Lorian's existence possible.

And we plagiarized the Omegan-American Declaration, too.

And I say there would be no reason for Trelane to have one in his front hall unless it was in reference to Kirk and his crew. After all, he wanted them to feel at home...