FL, the basic message is that men have the "relationship" power and women have the "sexual" power. Not always true, but in general it is.
Not that women will put up with sex for a relationship...we like sex too!!!


Now, I do agree that there are women out there who are flat out dead where sexual activity (and/or experience) is concerned. But there are men like that, as well. In fact, I know guys who frequently argue with their partner since she wants more sex then he does. It happens more often then you might think. A women's mojo is just as large as that of a man.
And yes, there is nothing worse then a dead fish. "I'm lying down here, you just do what you want". Ugh; get your big ass away from my kitchen table and take a cab home, girl.