*I often wonder about Phlox's psychology degree. I think it's a Denobulan degree and when he tries to apply it to humans (or Vulcans) it just doesn't always really work - he's been off the mark on a number of occasions.
Seriously. I'm pretty sure that every single time Phlox tried to psychoanalyze anybody on board, he got it
blazingly wrong.
Trip and T'Pol getting together didn't (and doesn't) bother me any more than any other soap-opera-in-space aspect of any Trek series did. I'm just not one who believes that all good stories need a hook-up. (I'm currently reading the
Destiny series, and I find myself skimming over the Troi/Riker relationship parts to get back to the space battle and
Columbia plots. I just don't care that much about their struggles as a couple. Never have.) That said, I do believe T'Pol got involved with Trip because of the Trell-D. Again, not outlandish to me; she says that after her
Impulse exposure, she "wanted more." Makes sense to me; it felt good, and (like anybody who self-medicates) she tried to recapture or replicate that feeling. Part of it was the ability to lose her cultural and biological inhibitions, and let's face it, intimacy (both physical and emotional) feels
good. But having opened that Pandora's Box, she didn't know what to do with it. She was able to acknowledge her feelings of attraction for Trip, something she never would have without the Trellium boost, and wasn't able to get that particular genie back into the bottle. She tried - that's what Season 4 was all about. Discovering the Kir'Shara allowed her to realize that emotion,
per se, wasn't wrong, and she takes the next step in Vulcan evolution: mastery, not denial, of emotions. I also think that, not being raised in an overtly sexual culture, she was unprepared for the intensity of the attraction. I do believe she initially approached it as,
Huh, let's see what this whole sex thing is about, and afterwards was like,
Oh. Wasn't expecting that. Now what the hell do I do? She didn't sleep with Trip or continue the relationship because she was high; the Trell-D allowed her to run with feelings she otherwise would have repressed. In other words, it's why she started, but not why she continued.
Does she yank Trip around a bit in season 4? Sure. But in my travels, I've met lots of on-again/off-again couples - some of whom are together today, and some who eventually went their separate ways. And T'Pol
has no experience in relationships, at least the way humans relate to each other. No wonder her course is zig-zaggy.
So, my opinion about Trip and T'Pol? It's fine, whatever. This isn't the Romance Of The Century!! but it's not an abomination, either. I probably would've preferred for everyone to keep their pants on during the mission - but that's just me. I don't gouge my eyes out when they're on screen together, but I'm not going to read TGTMD and its sequels (the premise is ridiculous to me), or any other fan fiction whose sole purpose is to recreate the Greatest Love Story Ever Told, either.