I think it's a silly question. Why would the amount of respect a woman is entitled to be affected by how much of her skin is covered by fabric?
And it's culturally relative anyway. Does Scotty deserve less respect than Kirk or McCoy because his dress uniform includes a kilt rather than pants? Isn't that an arbitrary and meaningless distinction?
Ancient Greek sculptors and painters routinely depicted their gods in the nude. Was that an expression of disrespect? No. Not every culture perceives human flesh as somehow objectionable. I'd certainly like to think that Earth society in the 23rd century has healthier attitudes than that.
Does the way a woman dresses affect my own opinion of her as a person? No. My best friend in college was a stunningly beautiful and sexy woman, and I certainly enjoyed it immensely when she wore revealing summer dresses, but I had exactly as much respect for her mind, for her feelings, for her rights, for however you care to define respect. I was easily able to enjoy her (totally unaffected) sexiness and relate to her as a friend and equal at the same time.
As I see it, it's not disrespectful to admire a person's physical attributes; it's only disrespectful to ignore the rest of that person. Appreciation of a woman is not a zero-sum game. You don't have to subtract attention from her inner attributes to focus it on her outward ones. I've never had trouble paying attention to both at once.
And it's culturally relative anyway. Does Scotty deserve less respect than Kirk or McCoy because his dress uniform includes a kilt rather than pants? Isn't that an arbitrary and meaningless distinction?
Ancient Greek sculptors and painters routinely depicted their gods in the nude. Was that an expression of disrespect? No. Not every culture perceives human flesh as somehow objectionable. I'd certainly like to think that Earth society in the 23rd century has healthier attitudes than that.
Does the way a woman dresses affect my own opinion of her as a person? No. My best friend in college was a stunningly beautiful and sexy woman, and I certainly enjoyed it immensely when she wore revealing summer dresses, but I had exactly as much respect for her mind, for her feelings, for her rights, for however you care to define respect. I was easily able to enjoy her (totally unaffected) sexiness and relate to her as a friend and equal at the same time.
As I see it, it's not disrespectful to admire a person's physical attributes; it's only disrespectful to ignore the rest of that person. Appreciation of a woman is not a zero-sum game. You don't have to subtract attention from her inner attributes to focus it on her outward ones. I've never had trouble paying attention to both at once.
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