Agreed with both of you. I recently took an almost offended stance when someone else was calling Sisko's character racist and bigoted. Obviously, I was going to defend my captain (Sisko is my favorite captain, and for multiple reasons very dear to me) because that was not how he was written or portrayed, but I was really mad at first that those terms were even used with him. (The other person said they didn't intend to be quite that harsh with Sisko, if I'm being fair. And unless proven otherwise, I go with what someone says when they make their intentions clear.)
I was responsible for them commenting this. This is the thing with people today. Remember forums back in like 2000 up to 2010? People usually got along, and there were oocasionally minor arguments that were quickly settled. People generally agreed with each other or supported each other, and if someone disagreed or had a different opinion, they only mentioned it if the reason was very valid, and usually everyone even the opposing poster would agree and settle their dispute.
These days, it's like everyone's trying to compete, or appear special by trying look "smart" or "tough", by replying to a post using any "reason" no matter how far stretched or misunderstood, to make a claim thats the exact opposite of the poster they're replying to, in order to appear as if they're correct and the other poster is wrong, thus automatically making them appear "smarter" or more "learned". You'll find this everywhere now, youtube comments, Twitter, reddit, forums. If a poster makes an extremely good and solid point that basically FORCES the opposing poster to have to agree, instead of agreeing, they disagree making up crazy "reasons", like sisko being "racist", or "bigoted", essentially stretching the truth or outright lying, just to have a "gotcha" moment and appear to be the "winner". This need to do a "gotcha" and or win, is just so ridiculous. It looks so insecure. Do people think of if they're forced to agree with a poster that they don't like, that it will somehow negatively affect them? "Oh I don't want to associate with Mr. Parrot, regardless of his solid points, so I will now make up ANY reason such as claiming sisko was "racist" or whatever, just to show the APPEARANCE that I'm SO TOTALLY against him".
It would be easier to just say, "I don't like you, but you're point is correct", or try to find actual good reasons to oppose me, or others who share my opinion. Had I tried to defend sisko I'm 10000% sure my opposition wouldn't even give me a nanometer of approval, but because it was you heavily disagreeing with that poster, they realized they can't disagree with you or get on your bad side, most likely due to your reputation here or because he likes you, and thus he was forced to "restate" his "conclusions".