If that makes you feel better, sure. View it however you like. But, that's not what it is.
You're lack of a counterpoint has been noted and logged though. You've got nothing.
Since I didn't feel like typing out a long post detailing all the ways I don't agree with you, I opted for succinctness.
Showrunners don't know everything. FFS, the idiot who ran Doctor Who had this notion that the companion was the star of the show and the Doctor was merely her sidekick. That's why I walked away from that show over a season ago, and might not even bother coming back to check out the newest Doctor. Mess with things too many times, and some fans just leave and don't come back.
There's enough about this nu-nuTrek crap that makes me think this is nothing more than a bait-and-switch scheme to slap a Star Trek label and a few fannish items on a generically bad SF show and hail it as the "bestest Star Trek evar!".
Nope, they failed to convince me that it's a perfect fit with TOS, and they also failed to convince me to fork over $$$ for it.
Reboot refers to canon, not visuals. This is not a reboot.
Groovy. Quote me the series, episode, and lines where Spock mentions his father's ward, Michael Burnham (who is female - something that wouldn't have been done in the '60s, btw - giving a female character a male name, since this was before the time when interchangeable names were a common thing).
And how about the episode "Turnabout Intruder" in which Kirk explains to Janice Lester that there really have been lots of good women starship captains, but she just can't be one of them?
No?
This is a reboot.