Actually, it is, and again you provide the perfect example of what I'm talking about, really spot on. The choices aren't required to "make sense" in the literal sense of the words, they never are. Star Trek never, ever literally made sense. It never could; it depends upon fictional, fantastic technology that itself ultimately doesn't make sense, and it visits worlds with aliens that are both literally utterly improbable.Thinking that choices that were made don't make sense is not being in denial about anything.
Your idea suffers from the error that your fanon should take priority over canon. You're not obligated to like the creative choices, but the reality is that they make all the sense that they ever could and therefore all that they need to make. You seem to be equating your opinion that the choices "suck" with the notion that they don't make sense.