Personally I don't think James should have any say over to who Kara divulges her identity. That's got to be akin to coming out of the closet or other private matter. Once that secret is aired her private life is over. Not to mention just how dangerous it could be for multiple parties. That is for Kara alone to entrust and she shouldn't be pressured by anyone to give that up.
I'm with
DarKush on this. James wasn't pressuring her or demanding to "have any say." He explicitly asked her for permission. He explained why he didn't feel he could keep this secret anymore, but he still left the decision in Kara's hands, where it should be.
It's analogous to Winn telling Kara how he felt. At the time, a lot of people saw that as Winn saying "Love me or else." But it wasn't. He was just telling her how he felt and admitting that he didn't know where to go from there. He was just being honest with his friend about how he felt, and not pressuring her for anything in return. James is doing much the same thing -- confiding in his friend about the difficult dilemma he's in, but not trying to usurp control over her decisions.
The only thing I want to say about Winn is that I do think there is a difference. He was a person she trusted, was (and still is) her friend when she told him. He's the first non-relative, as far as we know, that she told. Who is Lucy compared to that? She's the daughter of a powerful man who is hostile to her and wants to take over the DEO and she's the girlfriend of a man that Kara has feelings for. What makes Lucy as worthy a candidate as Winn for inclusion in on her secret?
You're leaving out the part where Kara and Lucy actually like each other. Their interaction isn't defined strictly through the men in their lives. They hit it off splendidly from the beginning. They're friends. Lucy has helped the gang on more than one occasion, and she could be even more helpful if she were in on the secret. And, as I said, Lucy is a
lawyer. It's her job to keep confidences.
While Lucy hasn't done anything to make Kara or the audience suspicious, I don't see why Kara should widen her circle at this time. Right now she's reeling emotionally and might want to keep a lid on her secret.
The reason is clear from the episode -- because James is in an impossible situation where he has to betray one person he cares for to be true to another. If she decides to do it, she'll be doing it for James. The alternative is to let the situation linger until James and Lucy break up, and while she would benefit from that personally, I doubt Kara would want to be so selfish or manipulative as to deliberately hurt two friends in order to get what she wanted.
And she doesn't have to do it recklessly. She could sound out Lucy first, try to get a better sense of her feasibility as a member of Team Supergirl.
Of those that currently know her secret you have her sister, Superman's best friend, Kara's best friend, Hank (who has sworn to protect both Kara and Alex).
And apparently the entire staff of the DEO.
Of those that Kara let in on her secret I don't see how any of them can be called 'worse'. They are either close to Kara, Alex, or Superman. Darn near family.
That is not my point! I'm not talking about them, I'm talking about Lucy. I'm saying she strikes me as a good candidate, not that anyone strikes me as a bad candidate.
Good point about Felicity. But Felicity was included on Arrow as a one-off character, however she really connected with audiences. I wonder if the name was just picked as an Easter Egg.
It was picked because the comics' Felicity Smoak worked with computers and they needed a computer expert. I think the reason that modern comics adaptations rely so heavily on existing character names, even if they're completely different from the characters they're based on, is because the comics publishers themselves are now producing the shows and they'd rather use characters they already own than have to pay royalties for the reuse of original characters created by TV writers. So they try, as much as possible, to find existing character names that can fit the character types they need in the shows and movies, even if the needs of the story require changing them a great deal.
Granted Lucy could've just been added to the show because of her family connections. I think she might have also had a relationship with James in the comics, but I'm not 100% on that.
Oh, absolutely. Lucy Lane debuted in 1959 in issue #36 of
Superman's Pal Jimmy Olsen, by Otto Binder and Curt Swan. She was created specifically to be Jimmy's (largely unrequited) romantic interest, and that was pretty much her exclusive role for the first couple of decades of her existence. No doubt her connection to Jimmy/James is the primary reason for her inclusion in the series.
Sam Lane was introduced in the same SPJO issue, but he didn't become an Army general until the post-Crisis reboot in the '80s.
Look, I know I'm a simpleton, but why does James have to tell Lucy that Kara is Supergirl? Why can't he just say "Yeah, my buddy Superman told me to look up his cousin if I took this job with Cat Grant, after she declared herself to the world that's just what I did. We've been working off and on ever since.
Because that would still be keeping secrets from the woman he loves. He doesn't want to have to lie to her.
As for the other big secret this week, its past time for Alex to fess up to Kara about who killed Astra. The lie is obviously tearing Alex up and impeding Kara's relationship with Hank. Also, Alex wouldn't be expected to have as many "choices" when it comes to stopping Astra than Hank would have had.
But Kara's relationship with Alex is more important, in J'onn's view. A boss doesn't have to be loved by his subordinates.
Besides, even if Kara did learn the truth, she might still resent Hank/J'onn just as much. After all, Alex killed Astra to save J'onn. Her loyalty to J'onn outweighed her loyalty to Kara. So Kara might resent both of them for that. So if she's gonna resent J'onn either way, nothing is gained if she also resents Alex.