With much respect, I think we should have a really hard look at some of the victim mentality that seems to be going around. Fans of the show get mercilessly hammered too. So, maybe we can be more productive about it other than just looking at it myopically from the side of hurt feelings and our own personal experiences?
TBH, I just don't get the whole "tribal" mentality when it comes to fandom in general.
Hell, I don't even get it in politics. I have very strongly held, pretty out there (for the U.S.) political beliefs. But I am relentlessly critical of politicians and people in the "movement" who I see as doing things which are stupid on tactics, messaging, etc. I just don't get the idea that we should "close ranks" around people who support the same things we do.