I LIKE Discovery, but some things do annoy me about it.
... I'm old enough to vaguely remember seeing some of the last episodes of the original Star Trek ...
Our culture has changed a lot since then... my attitudes are a product of the times I grew up in.
Discovery is very "progressive" which translates to "liberal" ... "social justice warriors". The series is NEARLY hostile toward white human males. ...
The series heavily pushes homosexuality and the notion of gender fluidity and even takes a poke at gender naming. (Male, female, he, she, it, other...) To a person of my generation I find these things to be anywhere from somewhat unsettling to positively triggering!
I'll be the first to say that "You like what you like, you like who you like, and you are free to live and think as you please" but that doesn't mean you have to shove it down my throat by making HALF the cast neither straight nor definitively gendered!
... all of the cast members that represent these "alternative lifestyles" are engaging, charming, and endearing. I LIKE them. I just don't need to actually SEE Stametz kissing Culber! ...
So it's not that I object to these alternative lifestyles....but ...
Glad to hear there are some things you like about the show.
However:
To a person of my generation I find these things to be anywhere from somewhat unsettling to positively triggering!
Let's nip that pretense in the bud right there.
You've gone to some lengths to establish that you're older than a lot of the other people you imagine are here... and then you want to use that as an excuse for not wanting to accept certain very specific aspects of story, character, casting, or whatever.
Here's a secret: None of that has anything to do with how old you are.
If you made a choice to lock yourself in to some outmoded preconceptions, then call it that. Own it.
If you made a decision that you would adhere to beliefs which were already becoming obsolete during the time you claim to have been growing up, then call it that. Own it.
If you consciously chose to arrest your personal growth at some predetermined point and swore never to change your mind about anything ever again, then say that.
But when you come in and say stuff like:
I'll be the first to say that "You like what you like, you like who you like, and you are free to live and think as you please" but that doesn't mean you have to shove it down my throat...
... you know what it looks like to everyone else?
Seriously. You might want to step back and reconsider a lot of what you've said here. It's not painting a very flattering picture of an open-minded Trek fan.
Any time you catch yourself expressing an opinion in the form of "I'm not _______,
BUT . . . " -- stop. Ask yourself why you're doing that. For whose benefit is it supposed to be? Why does "I'm not ________" need to be qualified?
Ask yourself why what it really sounds like is an excuse being made. And whether that's in any way necessary or desirable.
Think about it. And welcome, new guy.