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Were you guys ever shamed for liking trek or any other nerdy hobbies?

That'll do it

Oh yes, New Yorkers are going to laugh at people wearing Yankees gear. :lol: ;)

srsly, no, I didn't have sports gear of any kind at the time. All I had was the ringtone.

Oh well. It was a long time ago. No biggie. Water under the bridge. :shrug:
 
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Honestly, I don't recall anyone ever giving me a hard time for being a Trekkie. My dad was a big SF fan who passed that onto me, so I grew up watching STAR TREK and BATMAN and THE TWILIGHT ZONE with him, back in the sixties.

As for school, sure, I was occasionally bullied because I was your archetypal skinny, four-eyed, socially-awkward bookworm, but it never occurred to me to hide any of my nerdy interests. I was that weird kid who was into science fiction, comic books, and monster movies and everybody knew it: classmates, teachers, relatives, neighbors. Heck, I met my best friend in junior high because she spotted me reading a Doc Savage paperback in the school cafeteria. (Or maybe it was a Captain America comic book?) That was at least fifty years ago and we're still friends to this day.

Went through most of public school with my nose in a book, then belatedly discovered organized SF fandom in college, just in time for the first couple Star Trek movies. Became a professional Trekkie and never looked back.

And nowadays? Even outside fandom or work, nobody ever bothers me about being all sci-fi all the time. To the contrary, I often get compliments about whatever geeky tee-shirt I'm wearing that day, regardless of whether we're talking Star Trek, Batman, Godzilla, or whatever. Sometimes it even leads to some nice social encounters.

Got into a nice conversation with a bank teller recently because she admired my "Creature from the Black Lagoon" tee-shirt. Turned out she was also a big monster-movie fan. :)
 
Forgive the double post, but it's been nearly twenty-four hours. Anyway, I couldn't resist sharing this story again:

Years ago, a friend of mine wanted to buy a comic book or graphic novel at the supermarket, but was embarrassed to take it up to the counter because, honestly, the cashier was cute and he didn't want this attractive woman to catch him buying a Spider-Man graphic novel or whatever, so he asked if I could please buy it for him and he'd pay me back later.

Sure, I said, having no shame about such things.

Turns out, however, I didn't have enough cash on me, so, yes, I couldn't resist turning around and calling out loudly across the store:

"Oh, Carl? Carl Jenkins? I'm going to need another dollar for your SPIDER-MAN comic."

It was evil of me, I know, but I have no regrets. :)
 
I few decades ago I signed up with a dating service. You were required to make a profile of yourself, describing yourself. To view the profiles of others you would go into their office to look at them, and then indicate your interest in those you selected.

After awhile, I realized I wasn't getting any positive responses. So I sat down with a couple employees to go over my profile. They were horrified when we got to the part where I mentioned that I occasionally attend science fiction conventions.

Never went back.
 
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Heck, I met my best friend in junior high because she spotted me reading a Doc Savage paperback in the school cafeteria. (Or maybe it was a Captain America comic book?) That was at least fifty years ago and we're still friends to this day.
That’s pretty much how I met my best friend. Also friends to this day and I’m his daughter’s godfather.
 
I always responded with “Fantasy Football is just D&D for jocks” and walk away. “

Oh, so a Jersey is your red shirt.”
 
I have been shamed, shunned and ostracized my whole life by both Star Trek fans and non fans alike for my love of the show. It all started in school… Being a Star Trek fan has never done me any good on a social level. :shrug::p

I still love the show though. :D
 
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Never really had a problem, but didn't have many friends growing up, Just parents and brothers, who didn't really care to much about it. In the military had my Gundams, and a huge stargate Anubis figure out in the open, my office today is wallpapered in scifi posters. no one has really given me any grief about it ( maybe because I'm 6'3" 220 lbs...:shrug: ) and even if they did, I don't care about there opinon. I had sci fi geek on my dating profile, still got plenty of dates. Sorry, but i'm honest, sci fi is apart of me, if you don't like it, you can not click me from the get go. I grew up in a town of 4000, so super small.

I don't judge others on there likes or dislikes or hobbys, because most of the time it never comes up in a conversation. I know who at work I can talk to about certain subjects, others don't give a crap about it. I have core group of freinds that like most of what i like, Trek, Gundams etc. but there heavy Car guys, i'm not, I just don't respond when a group text conversation goes that direction.
 
Very good, Forbin! :).

BTW, isn't the image on the left Venom Geek and Drachinifel discussing Star Trek?
 
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I’m lucky. I married a Trekkie.

31 years of shows, movies, conventions, trips to the Star Trek Experience in Vegas…

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Me too, happily. She even throws Trek (and Star Wars) quotes at me at random. She occasionally even calls me "Captain," but usually sarcastically. :lol:
 
I have been shamed, shunned and ostracized my whole life by both Star Trek fans and non fans alike for my love of the show. It all started in school… Being a Star Trek fan has never done me any good on a social level. :shrug::p

I still love the show though. :D
Never did mine much good. So I found other ways to connect. It's all about balance.
 
I've met a lot of good friends through Star Trek.

Likewise.

Honestly, it was SF fandom --clubs, conventions, film festivals, trivia contests, etc. -- that brought me out of my somewhat introverted shell and helped me rejoin the human race. Changed my life, really.

In particular, a group trip to see TMP on opening night, organized by our campus SFF club, helped kick off the process.
 
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