Trent Roman said:
Maestro said:
LonelySquire, I don't think anyone is disrespecting you or your opinion regarding your moral beliefs
Just for the record, I am. I only respect rational arguments and/or hard evidence, and I have yet to see one of those deployed here, or indeed in decades worth of argument on this artificial issue. All people are free to hold their opinions, but that doesn't mean we need to respect the opinions themselves even as we respect the right to expression. A person should not be allowed to state an obvious error and go unchallenged simply by disclaiming it as his or her opinion. If someone said (to use an example from another thread) "In my opinion, the world is flat...", I wouldn't at all feel beholden to respect that opinion. As I do not this preposterous construct of fairy tale and phobia.
Cicero said:
Of avoidance, certainly, to which he is entitled unless based in scorn or contempt.
Unless? This is not flavours of ice cream we're talking about. It's people. If I exhibited avoidance of blacks, would I not be racist? Of Jews, anti-Semetic? The inherent rights of people demand that they not be ignored and cast aside simply for who they are.
Religious opinion, perhaps, leading to (poorly founded) moral disagreement. He's made clear that he supports equal rights for homosexuals, considers them persons equal to himself, and respects the opinions of those with whom he disagrees. I don't see what is intolerant or homophobic in his position.
There's the avoidance, as I said. And there is little difference between religious opinion and religious intolerance... not when one considers the implicit threat behind 'not being right with God'.
I disagree with him, but I suspect that it's his reasoning which is flawed, not his heart.
Irrevelant. I don't care how people feel. I care how they act towards others, what kind of ideology they see fit to propagate.
That's an informed opinion, but not one which bears on what the example is trying to illustrate. I might (for whatever reason) feel that flying is immoral, but still feel and behave compassionately and normally toward birds. You can love those who do things you don't like - whether your worst enemy, your closest friend, or a random member of humanity.
Sorry, doesn't work for me. Even if you take the example of a criminal that needs to be rehabilitated, somewhere you are expressing negative opinion of that person in suggesting that there is something about them that needs to be changed. Which isn't at all wrong in the case of the prisoner, but is when applied to those innocent of misdeed.
This is true, but I'll again suggest that TheLonelySquire isn't exhibiting signs of bigotry, but (foundationally flawed) moral disagreement.
And again, I ask: what's the difference? Why would discrimination based in faith be somehow better than discrimination based in, for instance, a belief in social darwinism?
More to the point, there is a significant difference between person and act. You can love someone who does wrong, even though you despise what they are doing.
Most of the time, perhaps. But people compelled to act in a certain fashion because of who they are, of characteristics which cannot be changed, blurs those boundaries, for better or worse.
(Besides, homosexuality isn't an act, it's an attribute, like height and humanity.)
It can be both. Most gays, I imagine, are born with their sexual preference... certainly, given the current cultural climate, I don't see there are many people who would choose to be gay if they didn't have to. But would such a choice be unethical? I'm not gay, but there's nothing, theoretically, that prevents me from choosing to have sex with another man. Would that choice be unethical because I'm not genetically predisposed to same-sex attraction?
TheLonelySquire said:
However, when someone here or anywhere tells me that homosexuality is normal, I'm going to tell them that it's not.
Homosexuality is normal. Genetically, it occurs in a fairly regular percentage of this species, and many others, and has continued to manifest itself throughout our history. It is uncommon, but that doesn't make it abnormal for those in whom in does occur, any more than left-handedness or red hair.
Being tolerant doesn't mean accepting something that simply isn't so.
On this, we agree.
Fictitiously yours, Trent Roman