Trent Roman said:
Cicero said:
I won't speak for TheLonelySquire, but I do think there has been rather too much reaction to his comments and too little reading of them.
TheLonelySquire's originating post indicated that he'd returned the books after being disturbed by the sexual content in the book, including a lesbian relationship. That's a reaction of avoidance, of dismissal, suspect to begin with.
Of avoidance, certainly, to which he is entitled unless based in scorn or contempt.
He further clarified his cultural context by precising his objection was 'moral' and provided Biblical quotations. Thus, this avoidance/dismissal of gays is based in relegious intolerance. I would characterize that as homophobic behaviour.
Religious opinion, perhaps, leading to (poorly founded) moral disagreement. He's made clear that he supports equal rights for homosexuals, considers them persons equal to himself, and respects the opinions of those with whom he disagrees. I don't see what is intolerant or homophobic in his position.
I disagree with him, but I suspect that it's his reasoning which is flawed, not his heart.
Smiley said:
If I'm understanding correctly, Cicero was using the word "homosexuality" to refer to the practice, not the people. Just like it is possible to hate the thieving but love the thief, it is also possible to hate the homosexuality but love the homosexual.
But thieving is a negative behaviour. Homosexuality is ethically neutral.
That's an informed opinion, but not one which bears on what the example is trying to illustrate. I might (for whatever reason) feel that flying is immoral, but still feel and behave compassionately and normally toward birds. You can love those who do things you don't like - whether your worst enemy, your closest friend, or a random member of humanity.
There are no grounds for hate in the first place. Further, a great many homosexuals are born that way, such that homosexual acts are nothing more than an expression of their being.
This is of course, true, and a significant part of why the reasoning behind TheLonelySquire's moral position is flawed.
Since it's ethically neutral (unlike, say, potentially maladaptive genetic inclinations to alcoholism), the bigots are objecting to the person being the person...
This is true, but I'll again suggest that TheLonelySquire isn't exhibiting signs of bigotry, but (foundationally flawed) moral disagreement.
There's also the question of the difference between being 'right' with him and 'right with God'. I'm not a participant in these mechanics, but that sounds someone alike to the difference between being 'right' with me and 'right' with the law. I may like you, but you're still going to jail.
and such this attempt to distinguish between person and act comes across as more of an exercise in sophistry than anything else.
I'm a big fan of the sophists.

(Besides, homosexuality isn't an act, it's an attribute, like height and humanity.)