Then she started crying...

[Cakes488]

long story story short.... this female has been coming onto me heavily. From the first time I met her she's been throwing herself at me over the last month or so .. so I figured what the hell... go for it. Go over to her place and we're.. in thw throes of passion when she starts crying... I thought she was into it... then realized she was crying.... but since I was at that point I finish up...

Should I feel guilty? Every step of the way she threw herself at me... was all over me.. until that moment... It took others to point out she was throwing her self at me... I really don't feel one way or another for her other than a lay..... so here I am wondering did I do wring considering she's the one that threw herself at me. Afterwards I went home and slept without any problem.

Yeah you should feel like shit. I hope you use this as a learning experience, but a woman crying during sex is rarely a good thing. Even if she threw herself at you and you didn't have the same feelings for her than you need to be straight up with her about it so she knows what she's getting herself into. If she wants to proceed, knowing that you really don't care much for her...than it's on her. But seriously, what did you do zip and split while the chick is laying there sniffling? That's cold man...very cold.

I'm pleased to see the majority of thread respondents don't dispose of people like trash after they've gotten what they wanted....but we all know there are plenty of those types out there.

 

[Rii]

I think any decent, caring human being might have asked what was making her so sad, romantic interest or no.

QFT

 

[ByrdMan]

Was there a donkey punch you failed to mention?

 

[Jenee]

Hard to say without more info, but it sounds like she was probably throwing herself at you to take her mind off something else. Something that came to the fore during your encounter when presumably she realised it was making her feel worse about herself instead of better.

This.

Coupled with this:

It was disappointment.

Dude ... what the fuck were you thinking? She's throwing herself at you so she deserves what she gets?

Just remember that when the love of your life brushes you off for a guy with a nicer car, better job and bigger pocketbook.

dumbass.

 

[TheLonelySquire]

long story story short.... this female has been coming onto me heavily. From the first time I met her she's been throwing herself at me over the last month or so .. so I figured what the hell... go for it. Go over to her place and we're.. in thw throes of passion when she starts crying... I thought she was into it... then realized she was crying.... but since I was at that point I finish up...

Should I feel guilty? Every step of the way she threw herself at me... was all over me.. until that moment... It took others to point out she was throwing her self at me... I really don't feel one way or another for her other than a lay..... so here I am wondering did I do wring considering she's the one that threw herself at me. Afterwards I went home and slept without any problem.

If you don't care why are you asking others if you should care? Something tells me you already have the answer.

 

[Deckerd]

He's preening. He actually thinks someone will be impressed. Either that or it's a beautifully crafted piece to arouse mass disgust.

 

[Locutus of Bored]

His story must be true. I read it on the internet.

 

[Cakes488]

Yeah but this scenario is all to true, people play each other on a daily basis..and much worse than what this guy did.

 

[Kestra]

You're wondering what you did wrong ...

Well from the looks of it, sounds like she wasn't too pleased in bed. So yeah, you did something wrong, and you should have asked her. But hey, if you're content to sleep with a woman and give her such a bad time that she's crying about it, then that's up to you.

 

[SPOCKED]

long story story short.... this female has been coming onto me heavily. From the first time I met her she's been throwing herself at me over the last month or so .. so I figured what the hell... go for it. Go over to her place and we're.. in thw throes of passion when she starts crying... I thought she was into it... then realized she was crying.... but since I was at that point I finish up...

Well why not? This "female" (by the way, I wonder how old this female is) has been trying to get into your pants constantly for a month!! CONSTANTLY.

Should I feel guilty? Every step of the way she threw herself at me... was all over me.. until that moment... It took others to point out she was throwing her self at me...

Others: ed629, we don't know if you've noticed, but this chick is seriously hitting on you. You have got to give it to her!! Haven't you noticed?? What's the matter with you, man??

I really don't feel one way or another for her other than a lay..... so here I am wondering did I do wring considering she's the one that threw herself at me. Afterwards I went home and slept without any problem.

This is the part I'll be focusing on when I talk to my youngest daugher (again) about what (some... or many) guys are really all about. It's a picture I've painted in earlier father-daughter talks now that she's dating, but this just helps my point. So thanks for that, at least.

 

[SPOCKED]

dumbass.

Jenee (and anyone else), feel free to tear the OP's actions apart (if you post it, you have to own it) but no personal slurs.

 

[Jenee]

dumbass.

Jenee (and anyone else), feel free to tear the OP's actions apart (if you post it, you have to own it) but no personal slurs.

Sorry.

This is why I need to stay in TNZ.

Say ..., ed629, you should post this question in TNZ. They love to give people advice in there.

 

[SilentP]

dumbass.

Jenee (and anyone else), feel free to tear the OP's actions apart (if you post it, you have to own it) but no personal slurs.

Sorry.

This is why I need to stay in TNZ.

Say ..., ed629, you should post this question in TNZ. They love to give people advice in there.

Perhaps the most ominous thing I've ever seen written on this forum

 

[JustKate]

This story just makes me sad - honestly. I am genuinely sorry I opened this thread. I hope it really is just a notch-on-the-bedpost story because the thought that someone could care so little for another human being - a human being who had done nothing wrong except find him sexually attractive - that he can't even take time out of his busy, busy schedule to say, "Is there something the matter?" just makes me sad.

 

[TheBrew]

Especially after the heart to heart I had with this friend-who-is-a-girl last night, people like you are complete scum who deserve the shit the shit beat out them. Even if you were oblivious to the likelyhood that there might be another reason she was throwing herself at you, you should have at least manned up and have asked if she was ok.

 

[SPOCKED]

Especially after the heart to heart I had with this friend-who-is-a-girl last night, people like you are complete scum who deserve the shit the shit beat out them. Even if you were oblivious to the likelyhood that there might be another reason she was throwing herself at you, you should have at least manned up and have asked if she was ok.

Your post is warnable, Brew. No more friendlies.

 

[Cakes488]

This story just makes me sad - honestly. I am genuinely sorry I opened this thread. I hope it really is just a notch-on-the-bedpost story because the thought that someone could care so little for another human being - a human being who had done nothing wrong except find him sexually attractive - that he can't even take time out of his busy, busy schedule to say, "Is there something the matter?" just makes me sad.

I'm sorry to say Kate but this happens ALL THE TIME. At least it looks like the guy wasn't intentionally trying to play her...because that's the worst when somebody deliberately manipulates you just so they can get laid. Men do it all the time..ALL THE TIME.

 

[Shaw]

Men do it all the time..ALL THE TIME.

Yeah, but not all men.

 

[Cakes488]

I know you're right...not all men. And it was very refreshing to read that today from quite a few of you guys. Gives me hope!
But when there are those bad apples out there crowding out the ripe ones at the top..it's difficult and time consuming weeding through the assholes.

 

[SPOCKED]

Men do it all the time..ALL THE TIME.

Yeah, but not all men.

Quite correct

But when there are those bad apples out there crowding out the ripe ones at the top..it's difficult and time consuming weeding through the assholes.

I imagine it is a vast forest of "weeds" -- sorry, Cakes