Yes, I heard her explanation and still I don't like it. It's not like Alex is a certified analyst who can decide what's healthy to share and what's not.
Whaaaa? No, she's someone in a relationship who's able to say "I want to help, you can trust me."
Instead, after stalking Maggie's ex (without asking her!) she concluded that the fact she didn't share a shameful act in her past was obviously a symptom of a problem.
No, she's recognized that there's a pattern of Maggie hiding painful truths -- this is at least the second time that we've seen -- and she knows Maggie well enough by now that she was able to understand the real cause of it, better than us TV viewers who only see them together for a few minutes a week. This was not an attack or a judgment, it was a gesture of love and support.
I mean, she'd just been told that her girlfriend had a history of cheating. Most TV shows would've used that as an excuse to create arbitrary conflict by having her get paranoid that she'd be cheated on too. But this is
Supergirl, a show that favors optimism. So instead of going the petty, insecure route like most TV writers would have her do, Alex reacted in a very mature, selfless, understanding way. She understood that the reason Maggie kept the secret wasn't because she couldn't be trusted, but because it was hard for her to trust, because she was still scarred by her parents' rejection. She was actually a lot more mature and understanding about being lied to than Kara was last week with Mon-El.
Um, this is a superhero show, not a show about a superhero's adopted sister's love life.
What a completely bizarre statement. Countless superhero shows and comics have had ensemble casts and have had ongoing subplots about the personal and romantic lives of supporting characters beyond the superheroes themselves. All the CW superhero shows are ensemble dramas, like most of the shows on the network. You're only just noticing this now?
This subplot had nothing to do with the episode. It served no purpose. Had no relation. At least when Winn and J'onn got involved with someone it was with an alien.
It served a purpose because it focused on two of the main characters in the cast and advanced their character arc. It showed how much Alex has grown in their relationship; before, she was the tentative, uncertain one and Maggie was the one helping her find herself, but now, she's the emotional anchor helping Maggie heal her own deep-seated wounds. I think that's a very significant moment in their growth as a couple.
Her romance is MUCH less relevant than James', who last season was involved with Lucy Lane, and was a love interest of the MAIN CHARACTER. Now if Jimmy were involved with some random girl, and it had nothing to do with the main story, and we dedicated time each week to Jimmy and this girl, and his feelings, then yes, you'd be right.
This has always been a show about both Kara
and Alex. The first season focused largely on exploring their relationship with each other; the second has mixed things up by putting them both in relationships with other people, in parallel to each other. Both of them have had romantic interests added to the main cast as regulars, Mon-El for Kara and Maggie for Alex. It's completely incorrect to treat one as more central than the other; Maggie is just as much a main character this season as Mon-El. In fact, Floriana Lima is billed
before Chris Wood in the credits. There are seven regulars this season: in credits order, Kara, James, Alex, Winn, Maggie, Mon-El, and J'onn. The show is about all seven of them. That's how ensembles work.