I'm not going to force any conversation about sexuality on her at her age. She's seven, and just barely seven at that. She has absolutely no concept of sexuality, has never asked a single question about it, and I really don't want to force the topic during a show about a super hero. If she asks questions, sure, we'll talk about it with her.
You don't need to talk about sex to talk about love and relationships. If she can understand that men can marry women, she can understand that men can marry men. If she can understand that a kid has a mommy and a daddy, she can understand that a kid has two mommies. It's actually a lot simpler if you don't address the sexual aspect, because then it's just about feelings and not how parts fit together. The only thing that's different is the pronouns.
My daughter who is 8 and her friends saw a lesbian couple on a movie or television show a year or saw ago. They asked my wife if to women could be girlfriend and girlfriend and my wife said yes or two boys could be boyfriends. The group of them literally shrugged their shoulders and went back to watching television. Kids are much more accepting than adults because every day the learn something different about the world.
Right. Kids have no preconceptions. Whatever they see around them, they accept as normal. They'd only have trouble accepting sexual or gender or racial diversity if they aren't exposed to it early in life, if they're raised with the fiction that uniformity is normal and then have to discover later that the world doesn't really work that way. Hiding reality from them when they're young will just make it harder to accept when they're older.
Thanks guys. This is pretty much what I was getting at. My daughter is 5 and we always frame discussions of relationships in terms of love and not sexuality. It doesn't phase her in the slightest. As I said, it's only a big deal if you make it a big deal.