it is, but it’s unfortunately perfectly in line with our society, whose awareness on this kind of issue is 10/15 years behind many other countries.
very good question, the answer is no. Non-binary people basically “do not exist” in the public awareness, in fact even being homosexual is just starting to become a somewhat accepted sexual orientation, other sexual orientations or the idea of having a different sexual identity than “the norm” is pretty much considered beyond the comprehensible by most. Givi it time and things will change, of course.
Also, the issue of non-binary people is further issued by the language: in English its just using “they” when talking about them and conjugate the verbs appropriately, in German they have a real (even if really messed up) neutral pronoun, in Italian *everything* is either male or female, including objects (in a totally arbitrary way), and everything is declined. If in English you say “I’ve been to the market” in Italian it’s “sono stato al mercato”, whose literal translation would be “I, male, have been to the market, male” (yes, the market is male...it just is!).