I've seen some real idiots on the trek media sites lately. Honestly, I'm glad the new movies appeal to casual fans or even just happy movie goers, because I no longer have a positive vision of my fellow Trekkies. I probably started losing it about 5-6 years ago(though the first hit it took was in 1990 or so when I started seeing internet comments about stng. I was so disappointed with my fellow trekkies). Ultimately it makes me less of a genre fan in general because then my thoughts turn to: It's only a movie or tv show...which is fine, that's all they are, but i can't help but think I got a little more out of it than most modern fans.
Admission: I wrote a more scathing review here of my fellow trekkers, but thought better of it. There's still lots of good ones whether I agree with them or not.
RAMA
How ironic, the movies that restored excitement are now "boring". http://www.theonion.com/video/trekkies-bash-new-star-trek-film-as-fun-watchable-14333
Don't give up man. The Internet is a funny place where people can adopt a persona that in real life doesn't even exist. I dare say that EVERY SINGLE one of those "I am going to boycott... this crap stinks.... I hate this....blah blah" folks you run into on the Trek sites will buy not one, but two tickets to ST: Beyond just so that they can complain about it later.