NuKirk was not a child, and should have learned discipline during his years at the academy. That would have included leaving personal affairs to off-duty time whether you're in that specific situation or not. I do not excuse him for it He should have known better, and NuSpock should have known better as well.Technically correct. The best kind.
I would imagine that the point was year to year, not month to month.
Yes, he should have. He wasn't that kind of leader yet. Kind of the point of the whole second movie.
NuUhura would be slow to receive any more promotions if I were running that ship.