Kirk is disillusioned and wants to apply for admiral after just 3 years into their mission. But after just 3 years this gives the feeling that this is happening way too quick into the series.
Spock and Uhura break up, but we never got to see enough of their relationship. Maybe after a 7 movie run you could feel the affect of their breakup, but not this soon.
Both these aspects aren't the point, though. Therefore, they aren't important nor something you need to take too
serioustly.
That may not sound too eloquent so let me elaborate my point a bit.
Kirk didn't really
want to leave the ship to be an Admiral because he liked that job all the sudden; it was just a pretext to find an alternative to a job he was questioning in that moment. If you think about it, we may perceive their careers as exciting but space might, after a while, make even the most trained people homesick. It must be weird to live in space for years (*this is something trek should definitely explore more. After all, even in our time experts are already questioning how to preserve the psychological health of Astronauts if they spend too much time in space. It's a real issue) . In Kirk's case, maybe he felt becoming the captain was rushed and he was questioning if he really wanted that. Still, there was a hint from the start that he didn't want to lose the connection with Starfleet ... the door wasn't completely closed yet.
The point isn't making you believe he truly wants to be an Admiral. The point is he's being unsure and maybe a bit depressed, and the question is how he will change his mind and rediscover why he wants to be in space. He needs to lose his ship and crew to understand how much they mean to him.
With
Spock and Uhura, both the break up and them getting back together happen offscreen because the point isn't them breaking up. For one, they aren't having relationship issues such as getting tired of each other or falling out of love.
Lin and Jung tried to explain this aspect: they wanted to push the relationship further and advance it, but they also wanted to acknowledge what had happened previously to Spock.
Now, if Spock has, essentially, survivor guilt where he feels like what he wants doesn't matter and his duty is helping vulcans, they have to necessarily show how that affects his personal relationship too. It's inevitable. Without too much screentime, an implied break up is the easiest way to address that but they also give us hints and evidence that the characters still love each other (him possibly leaving is their only obstacle at this point of the story) so when Spock decides to stay, they'll be back together. In fact, his feelings for her may also become one further pretext for tptb to make his decision to stay more believable without having to make the effort of explaining us in full details why he doesn't leave or why what happened in the movie may have made him realize his place is with her and his friends. Almost dying and losing her and everything can do that to a person. Add that he wasn't too sure about his decision, to begin with ( 'I had intended to discuss things further with her'), the door was never really closed for Spock either.
While it's true we didn't see a lot of the relationship ( and it's a pity), what we saw was enough to make it one of the aspects of this trek that many fans loved. So I would be more careful suggesting that if they broke up for good or one of them died,
no one would care..as if their bond doesn't matter when, honestly, it's no less important and meaningful for the story and the characters than the old school relationships are in this trek. This especially after everything these characters went through in the story. I'd say I care more precisely because they have to survive these issues.
I find their dynamic is among the most successfull of this trek in terms of writing and feeling authentic to me in spite of, relatively, getting not a lot of screentime. It isn't the be all end all of the story but maybe it's what makes it good too, in a way. They do get an arc in all the 3 movies but it's mostly a dignified romance with two characters who don't care about being an over the top hollywood romance. I love the little background moments they get such as the scene from into darkness where he walks to her when admiral Marcus wants to destroy their ship; or the worried but-i-can't-stop-her look on his face when she asks Kirk to let her speak klingon. For people like me who actually do notice such details, it's the stuff that truly adds heart and humanity to movies that may not have too much screentime to give to personal relationships (the way a TV series could for example).
Their more 'in your face' moments are dignified too. The way Spock embraces her back in the turbolift speaks volumes to me and it instantly tells me what the characters mean to each other without the narrative having to explain everything. His speech to her in into darkness also was a poignant way to tell her 'I love you' with his own words in his own way without turning him into a caricature. The way he looks at her before going after Khan (when she's like 'go get him') is an effective hint of character development that is completed (the arc about him needing to understand how to be accountable to those he loves) by the scene in beyond where he tells her that he appreciates and respects her concern for him (=her feelings).
The Enterprise is destroyed in the 3rd movie, but without seeing enough of it and the crew getting attached to it, there was no impact.
I agree with you here, but from a different perspective. I think one of beyond's problems is EXACTLY the fact many fans of the first movies may have perceived it as a depressing mess where the new team was essentially ditching and undoing everything the other team did. Everything those fans actually liked and wanted to see more of.
That culminated with the ship getting destroyed too which may come across as the metaphoric final nail in the coffin.
I don't think the creative team
wanted to truly ditch the first movies, but I believe a lot of the audience that made beyond fail got that impression and it doomed a movie that already struggled attracting the general audience with its main plot. Promotion didn't help either but, again, it was mostly Pegg&co's fault because they were the ones who essentially gave kelvin trek fans the impression their movie was more or less made to placate haters. And of course, some of the old fans didn't help them when they made reviews where they called this movie an extended tos episode and they praised the creative team for ditching JJ. It doesn't matter if the actual movie is
really like that, it's the
prejudice.
I think Pegg&co made choices that backfired. In their position, as the new team, it might have been already too easy for some to take it almost for granted that they'd ditch everything the other team had done.
It doesn't help that Lin honestly is not an excellent storyteller. JJ added character moments. Lin removed them. Beyond started a lot of subplots, but he doesn't give to their development and resolution enough space. Ditto for the different 'duos'. Uhura and Sulu basically have no bonding scene giving us a glimpse of their friendship (pity because IMO their dynamic had the most potential, actually, with them being the ones who were with the crew at Krall's base) There are many good ideas or potential, but they aren't developed enough. That is indisputable for me.
To be fair, making movies is a complex thing. A director's job can be extremely frustrating because they have so much material in their hands but they are forced to 'summarize' it all by the studio that doesn't care and demands the movie to fit into an established running time. This happened to poor Lin too. However, that's where the director' skills and talent as storyteller also show.
Personally, sometimes I just think the crisis the characters may face due to the villain and/or the dangers they find themselves into as starfleet officers is enough to fill the drama quota. In Spock's case, for example, his conflict in beyond would make more sense in stid, right after st09, than 3 years later. Inevitably, it doesn't get enough development in a busy movie like beyond and I feel Mccoy's line about Spock 'having to make vulcan babies' cheapens it a bit when you don't have the time to address the fact that, logically, Spock is half human himself so whether he has kids with a human or a vulcan is a moot point. That isn't the only way he can help the vulcans either. It's an irresponsible message to send too, in a way, to not address the fact that his kids with Uhura wouldn't be 'less valid' as vulcans and thus people who can help their legacy survive. Mccoy's comment clashes with the fact that Spock, of all the people, cannot believe that when he's biracial himself and struggled being considered a 'valid' vulcan for that reason. I always found the idea that Spock is the only mixed vulcan alive incredibly naive, anyway. Sarek cannot be the only guy who fell in love with a
person from another planet.
If you want to advance Spock's relationship with Uhura, I think the angst about, you know, them being separated when their ship gets destroyed should be sufficiently poignant especially when the characters basically don't even know if the other is still alive. That also mirrors the state the whole crew would be in. For instance, Mccoy should be scared about the fact he doesn't know if his best friend is alive. You also have Kirk's own desperation and responsibility he feels towards his crew. Lastly, you have Uhura and Sulu being the only commanding officers who are with the rest of the crew at the base so show how they cope with that and them all trying to stay strong and help each other. Imagine how traumatizing that experience was for Uhura and Sulu when Krall also made them see what he could do to them all.
The movie had enough to work with. It didn't necessarily need to add ulterior conflicts to Kirk and Spock that the narrative ultimately doesn't have enough time to fully develop. It's wasted opportunities.
It was like the series was telling us a lot of time, experience and bonding occurred instead of actually showing us. It just leaves you with the question, what's the rush on everything?
This is a valid, general, criticism.
I definitely feel they could've done more with the characters and their dynamics with set up of the first movies. They were naive taking too many things for granted and weren't so clever with the way they used the little screentime they had. As a result, it feels like the movie wasted the potential this trek had (I feel the same about into darkness too tbh) and as someone who really liked the first movie, I'm still kind of "waiting" for the 'real' sequel that I'll never get.
Consolation prize is that this trilogy ultimately didn't, overall, disappoint me like others did. It could've been much much worse.