Ok, Tidus, my point is this. Let me tell you something you will NEVER hear a fan say:
"I loved this story! I loved everything about this story! It was so exciting, it used the characters perfectly, and even though some bad things happened, the ending was beautiful! BUT, it deviated too far from the canon, so I don't approve."
If you like the story, deviations from canon are perfectly acceptable. "I see no reason why Chakotay has to have a relationship with Seven just because it was explored on the Voyager tv series" - your quote. If that relationship is ignored, it is DESTRUCTIVE TO CANON. By definition - it has destroyed something established in canon; the C/S relationship. But you like it, so it's ok.
If you don't like the story... well, that's when people start saying things like "it was destructive to canon." That argument NEVER happens, unless people DON'T like the story.
Your problem with Janeway dying is NOT that it violates canon, or is destructive, or anything like that. Your problem with Janeway dying is that you don't like that story. Which is fine, you're entitled to your opinion, and no one is forcing you to read books you don't like. But quit pretending it's for some bigger, philosophical reason; it isn't.
I guess that is where we differ on opinions. I don't see a change of relationship as destructive. It does enhance the unexplored feelings that Janeway & Chakotay showed on the tv series.
Death however is destructive since it somewhat more permanent (however permanent death in Star Trek, or any Scifi is ofter such a relative term/fluid concept).
Even if said death was used to highlight the deep unexplored (AND explored) feelings of your favorite VOY couple? Even if said death was used to develop VOY characters more than they ever had been??
If deah is such a fluid term in Sci Fi / Trek, you should embrace the opportunities in KJ's "death", as it enhances the VOY canon...
If using the non canon to be destruction to the canon is considered an enchantment I will take the lack of enhancement any day.
I like the Voyager canon, and invested 7 years watching it, and countless hours reading the novels & other media that weren't destructive to it.
I am attached & devoted to Voyager as much as the fans of the original series were devoted to that series. Just like them I will fight to keep alive the series that I know & loved.
I make no apologies for having a strong deeply rooted devotion to Voyager which is some of the best Star Trek ever created. Star Trek: Voyager to me is the most close to vision of Star Trek that Gene Roddenberry created with the original series.
Michael Piller who was one of the three executive producers of Voyager made this statement in the "Braving The Unknown" bonus feature that was included on the Voyager Season 1 DVD's
"We made it very clear that what appealed to us about that idea was that it it took us back to the basics of Roddenberry's original idea"
Jeri Taylor also said about the following about creation of Voyager on the "Braving The Unknown" bonus feature:
“We really felt it was the way to be the truest to the ideals of star Trek”
I always hear Next Generation fans & Deep Space Nine fans bash Voyager fans as being a different type to Star Trek. Deep Space Nine was the most non Star Trek series of all, but those fans don't seem to notice that. Sometime I even wonder if they ever have even watch Star Trek: The Original Series (I know that I have met a few of them who haven't, and base all of they know about Star Trek on the Next Generation fans & Deep Space Nine).
So anyone who wants to say that Star Trek: Voyager fans are a different type of fans, less relevant fans, or an inferior sort of fan is dead wrong. Star Trek: Voyager fans are the fans who like the vision of Star Trek the way that Gene Roddenberry originally envisioned it.
It seems like a lot of Next Generation fans & Deep Space Nince fans don't want to consider the Star Trek: The Original Series, or Star Trek: Voyager to be real Star Trek since it doesn't meet their personal likes of what they want in Star Trek.