Right; the in-universe gap in maturity between Picard and Crusher (regardless of the actual in-universe birth years) does seem higher than the ages of the actors in 1988 (48 and 39) would suggest.
That is not so for Picard and Pulaski, although it doesn't hurt that the actors' ages were closer as well (she was 50).
That is not so for Picard and Pulaski, although it doesn't hurt that the actors' ages were closer as well (she was 50).


The latter would probably be more exciting and interesting, though.

I'm not crazy about most of them, either. There seems to be a bit of a gathering momentum around the Picard/Troi pairing in recent years. Personally, I can't abide it for loads of reasons, but there is certainly more than one fanfic out there.