You realize that those weren't the actual events. He very likely wasn't ignoring her in reality, but he definitely was forced to leave for Icarus during her last moments.
Actually, no I didn't. As I said, the whole "not really a flashback" flashback thing of Rush's dreams really confused me. I mean I knew he was aware that he was reliving a past experiance, but I wasn't sure if this was an exact retelling or not.
So it turns out I was wrong. Sorry I don't get these type of subtle nuances or whatever.
If this was an SG-1 or Voyager or Enterprise episode, nobody would complain about knowing Eli and everyone will be fine next week.
You must not have been visiting Trek BBS back when those shows were in production, because such complaints have always been made in regards to all three shows you mentioned and others.
I just get a kick out of knowing that at some point Rush read "The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy" closely enough to internalize the number 42 as "the answer to life, the universe, and everything" -- so much so that his subconscious ("head Daniel") mentioned it.
They did a better 42 joke in the Atlantis episode Quarantine. Sheppard knows the final two digits of McKay's password are 42. Teyla asks why that number is significant, and Sheppard explains it's the answer to the ultimate question of life, the universe, everything. That made me laugh. This made simply made me think "been there done that."
Also, 46 is one number less than 47, Star Trek's magical number. That's not a complaint or nitpick, just an observation.