Relationship Q: When to say 'I Love You'

[sidious618]

When you had your first fights, seen her in gross moments and generally seen her bad side and you still want to be with her you can claim you're in love and say it to her without it being just an empty phrase.

Not necessarily on the fighting front. People like myself rarely if ever fight and I would be with someone similar. I'm fairly easy going so I don't want to have to wait two years to say, "I love you."

 

[Bisz]

If you don't want to scare her off, but do love her and want to test the water then just insert some qualifiers between "I" and "love you". Prime example: I think, I might, kinda, love you.

 

[TheGodBen]

Wait until you've messed up really badly and then say it to distract her from her rage. You can only use it once though, after the first time it will lose its power, so save it for something special such as burning her apartment down, or running over her sister in your car.

And whatever you do, don't say it while on a bus as her recently-ex-boyfriend sits there looking at you. Things can get awkward.

 

[Star Treks]

Well considering for the first time last night she gave me a bj, I'm thinking things are going well and I'm not too keen on shaking them up yet.

God that sounds so bad, lol

 

[SicOne]

Well considering for the first time last night she gave me a bj, I'm thinking things are going well and I'm not too keen on shaking them up yet.

God that sounds so bad, lol

Dude...if you've been with her three weeks and you're just getting started in that particular arena, then you ARE taking it slow. Did you reciprocate?

 

[Star Treks]

Well considering for the first time last night she gave me a bj, I'm thinking things are going well and I'm not too keen on shaking them up yet.

God that sounds so bad, lol

Dude...if you've been with her three weeks and you're just getting started in that particular arena, then you ARE taking it slow. Did you reciprocate?

When it comes to sex I have gathered that she's a take-it-slow kind of person. This has been a real relationship not a hormonal hookup, but it was nice to finally get that out of the way.

Plus, you have to remember that I'm a big fat hairy ugly dude who's terminally shy and riddled with self-esteem issues, so getting a blowjob from a cute younger Asian girl isn't exactly a daily occurrence for me. So as far as I'm concerned things are moving plenty fast for my liking.

I offered to reciprocate but I think she preferred dry humping and wasn't into getting oral yet.