I'm not trying to be difficult, but historically women were more accepting of homosexuality than men, unless y'know, religion, and even more understanding about Lesbians than gay men, or at least that's what I got from living through the 1980s, I could be wrong.
Sorry to talk about audioland again, but in the 1960s there was a bloke that had been flagged a criminal and the police where circling him for acquisition, sentencing and hard labour until his soul broke, so he's about to be caught when "Oliver" runs into the First Doctor and Steven Taylor, joins the TARDIS crew, and deftly escaping the clutches of johnny law for being public enemy number 1.
http://tardis.wikia.com/wiki/Oliver_Harper
He was only around for three adventures, but Oliver was horrified the whole time that the Doctor and Stephen would unmask and reject him as an immoral degenerate criminal homosexual, and toss him into spacejail for buggery. Stephen, an astronaut from the 22nd century laughed his ass off. "Seriously dude?! Really? You were worried about that? No one in the future cares about that anymore."
(Homosexuality between men was legalized in Britain in 1967. Before then. Prison, lots of prison. Alan Turing, the man who invented computers, was only let out out of prison after he agreed to be ritually chemically castrated by the state.)