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JANEWAY: I think we need to define some parameters about us.
CHAKOTAY: I'm not sure I can define parameters. But I can tell you a story...
Then, he basically tells her that, when he's with her/helping her, his life has meaning. If that's not a declaration of love, I don't know what is. That's like saying, "You make me want to be a better man." Wait, that's what he said.
She smiles at him sweetly and goes to bed alone. I think that speaks to what she felt for him.
While I agree on what her response was, I disagree that Chakotay's story (and, granted, it's a face-palm moment for me) was indicative of love.
I think it was indicative of a crush. And perhaps some serious neurosis.
He says she gives his life meaning. Um, if you're lookign to have someone else give your life meaning, you need to stop reading the romance novels and join real life. (That's a general you there).
Basically, they turned Chakotay into a slobbering puppy dog.
Which is so totally unattractive.
Kathryn doesn't need a puppy dog who derives his life's meaning from someone else. She needs a man (or a woman, for that matter) whose life already has meaning. She's confident enough in herself to want an equal, not an adolescent.