me neither. As much as I’m enjoying this season I think it’s clear that nothing too outlandish will be going on. The writers seem to want to be careful and avoid stepping out of generic SF mainstream tropes.
I'm enjoying this season too (I've also liked the first two), but yes, it seems the writers aren't making any grand effort towards showcasing proper technological development fit for the universe and the (vast) amount of time that has passed (but again, we've only seen 4 episodes thus far).
Well, unless you stop and consider the implications of a several hundred years old being having a romantic relationship with a 14 year old human, but I don’t think they put too much thought into this.
Adira is 16 (by the time she's on Discovery)... though in many real life regions of Earth, 14 is the age of consent. And to be fair, education in the Trek universe (and especially Federation) would likely be such so that all people are fully aware of the consequences of a romantic relationship and are exposed to relevant general education, critical thinking and problem solving (by contrast, I've met plenty of physically mature people whose mentality at times left me wondering if they left puberty to begin with - Trek humans or Federation citizens likely wouldn't have these issues - unless a species has an especially slow maturation time frame of course).
I mean, when you consider the fact that Adira was allowed to become an Inspector on Earth not so long before getting to Discovery (maybe 6 months or up to a year prior), and she would have been 15 at the time... we'd also have to consider the implications of allowing barely mature humans in joining teams like that.
Also, you have to consider the biological facts too. Technically humans do mature during this time frame and become capable of reproduction, but its also possible that by the 24th century, human maturation has been accelerated via technology (and lifespan subsequently increased).
We don't have a full set of data... but I'm not overtly concerned because Adira was already intelligent and mature for her age by the time she was in a relationship with Gray.
Also, Gray didn't seem much older than Adira (I could be wrong)... but technically if you include Tal's previous lives, then sure, he'd be hundreds of years old... but by contrast, Jadzia at times also considered Julian Bashir as a 'child' in DS9's first and second season...
Worf would barely be a teenager by that comparison... and we've seen Jadzia didn't have issues having relations with various people.
By the way, is it just my impression or the symbiont only carries memories now? In the past it clearly had a distinct personality, which merged with the one of the host,
Hm... not sure.
Too early to tell as of yet, but I do think that Gray's personality would have been affected more by the joining because such an influx of information/knowledge would in essence change you to a radical degree.
However, this is a human joining (and to our knowledge the only successful one)... so we'll have to see how it plays out.
Plus we know the joining affects different Trill differently.