The veracity of all his claims seemed suspect. At one point I wondered if I was an unwitting participant in some sort of public performance art.
I'd be more concerned about where else he might have hidden cameras...
Ladies, do you often get approached on the street?
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I'd be more concerned about where else he might have hidden cameras...
I had a guy yell at me from across the street asking me if I wanted a bj.
I was just curious.
Thanks for asking!
As a guy I've been on the other side of this situation a few times. About 8 years back, there was a really cute girl who I would see while going to & from my car at work (Our parking lot faced the lot of the small insurance agency next door). One day I saw her carry some boxes to her car. I asked her if she needed any help. She politely said no, but thank you. A little while after that I just walked up & introduced myself. We had a nice chat and she seemed very friendly. We exchanged work emails and talked about getting lunch together some time, and I ocassionally stopped by her office to say hello if I was leaving and she was working late. We never ended up getting lunch, and when I asked her out on a proper date she told me that she had a boyfriend. I have a feeling that it was just a polite excuse on her part, but I'm still glad I made the effort.
Another time a few years later, I was working part time in the music department of a large bookstore chain. Occasionally I would see a female customer that I found attractive or interesting, but I rarely approached them because I did not want to come off as creepy. One time after I talked with a woman for about 10 minutes or so, I happened to see her looking at the magazine rack just after I started my lunch break. I walked up and asked her if she would like to get some coffee with me. Again, she was very pleasant & polite. She said that she was in a relationship, but that she would have definitely accepted if she were single. She was so nice I didn't really feel bad about it. It's all in how you do it.
I remember another story along these lines. Around 98 or 99 I was riding the subway with my girlfriend at the time. It was a crowded car and we had a bit of distance between us (She was in a seat, I was standing, IIRC). A fellow who was sitting near her just said, "Excuse me, Miss... Am I your type?" Tracy found that a pretty amusing approach.
Another time a few years later, I was working part time in the music department of a large bookstore chain. Occasionally I would see a female customer that I found attractive or interesting, but I rarely approached them because I did not want to come off as creepy. One time after I talked with a woman for about 10 minutes or so, I happened to see her looking at the magazine rack just after I started my lunch break. I walked up and asked her if she would like to get some coffee with me. Again, she was very pleasant & polite. She said that she was in a relationship, but that she would have definitely accepted if she were single. She was so nice I didn't really feel bad about it. It's all in how you do it.
I remember another story along these lines. Around 98 or 99 I was riding the subway with my girlfriend at the time. It was a crowded car and we had a bit of distance between us (She was in a seat, I was standing, IIRC). A fellow who was sitting near her just said, "Excuse me, Miss... Am I your type?"
Tracy found that a pretty amusing approach.
Some writers have been known to do things like this as a research tool, to see how people might react in certain situations.
The veracity of all his claims seemed suspect. At one point I wondered if I was an unwitting participant in some sort of public performance art.
Not that I would ever do such a thing.
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