Yes. And no one ever takes him seriously. If she'd had a fling with the EMH it would be taken seriously but noooo...
I can see how if she created him from scratch it would be a little weird, though people were fine about the EMH doing it in the books. But all she did was tweak him, he was a creation of Tom Paris which if they had gotten married would have made Tom Paris her father in law
(Though really Fair Haven isn't an original creation, it's a bunch of templates and cliches mashed into a village.)
I can see how if she created him from scratch it would be a little weird, though people were fine about the EMH doing it in the books. But all she did was tweak him, he was a creation of Tom Paris which if they had gotten married would have made Tom Paris her father in law

(Though really Fair Haven isn't an original creation, it's a bunch of templates and cliches mashed into a village.)