I don't think either one of you are going to change the others mind so may as well stop the bickering.
Ive done my fair share of work in the criminal justice field. I've seen first hand the horror traffic crash DUI's can cause. I've worked with attorneys and seen them get guilty people off on a paperwork techincality. I've worked with victims of domestic assaults. I've seen the repeat offenders get slaps on the wrist over and over. Our criminal justice system is flawed, but everyone has the opportunity to have their case heard by a jury of their peers. There is no easy solution. But I do believe in giving someone who has a willingness to change and avails themselves of the programs offered to them a second chance. The bottom line is a person has to be willing to help themselves, the system can only do so much for them, and that does not happen right away. Sometimes it doesn't happen at all and some people just need to be locked up. In Liens case it might be time she gets sent to jail for an extended stay as she has been afforded several opportunities to change.
A very good post!
I do agree with
Amaris that Jennifer and other people in their situation needs help.
But like
Akiraprise, I've seen a lot of the other side too. Victims of DUI's, victims of mentally disturbed people, victims of domestic assaults and so on and most of all, I've seen what drugs can do to people.
Of course, help should and must be available to those who have different mental problems as well as to those who are addicted to drugs and alcohol.
But what happens when someone becomes a threat to other living beings?
And what happens when a person with mental problems, drug problems and alcohol problems simply don't want that help? When they commit the same offenses over and over again?
I've seen that happen to people very close to me and back then and even now I actually did wish that those people would have ended up in jail or in some institution instead of being "allowed" to continue to destroy themselves, which they did.
The society I live in is in the other end of the line compared to the US. Here there are only short times in jail or in institutions even for rather severe cases. But there's no "help" available either. They just release people after a while and then they become victims of a non-functional "help" system. The only thing that happens is that some doctor write out prescriptions of different kinds of pills and nothing more.
Personally I get absolutely crazy with anger when I see that this person here or that person there who just has been released from prison or whatever commits another crime or kill someone in a traffic accident while drunk or high on dope. It happens too often here now. Not to mention when I see people destroying themselves with alcohol and drugs. This as happened to people close to me and I'm still angry that they didn't get any help when help was possible.
But I've also known people who simply didn't want any help. Once nice and friendly people who refused to see what they were doing to themselves. Some of them had a lot of support from friends and relatives but it didn't help and in the end, even the most loyal friends and family members might simply give up.
I've also read tons of books about well-known rock bands in which there have sometimes been someone who have had issues with drugs and/or alcohol. There have been other band members, friends, family and relatives who really have tried to help but to no avail. In one case even the record company did all they could to help a former member of a successful rock band to get his act together because they thought they did owe him that due to all the money the band had brought to the company. But it was in vain and the former rock star who was a very nice and talented person died a few years later of alcohol related diseases.
Sooner or later the patience might dry out and that might also happen to the justice system.
Let's face it, Jennifer did get away rather easily the last time with exposing herself, with resisting arrest, with a former conviction of domestic assault, with DUI not only once but twice. They also offered her help against whatever issues she's suffering from. But now it has happened again.
What happens the day when the justice system thinks enough is enough?
I hope and pray for Jennifer that she can get her life back in order but I fear that she might end up in prison or some institution. Or even worse, kill someone or herself while DUI.
For me, as a fan of her Star Trek Voyager character and of her as an actress, this is downright tragic to see.