But I wasn't a biased-in-favor-of-Picard viewer.
lol you have to admit though that you were surely in the minority. For my take, I actually watched this episode the 1st time like everybody else "Hey this guy is being an asshole to our heroes", but after seeing the details over again, I began realizing my own bias & noticing that, yes, though he is brusk, there may be reasons for it, that I & the crew I'm biased towards, might be unaware of, & him being the captain means he needn't explain himself to anyone about those, if he thinks he shouldn't have to
It was my latest viewing of the episode that, for some reason, had gotten me to be more sympathetic towards Picard in that particular instance. Picard showed a lot class in the way he handled Jellico's remarks and the unsympathetic way Jellico handed over Picard's book.
I don't disagree. Picard is almost always classy when a social hurdle presents itself
It was specifically Jellico's remark, "and the chances are you won't be coming back from this mission of yours", that I thought was problematic. But not what he said about Riker and the other stuff. I am sure Picard already knew the risks of his mission.
Even when bringing up the Riker matter, Picard wasn't pushy. He was respectful and amiable.
It's not how he says it that matters imho. It's
that he's saying it. It's a very polite criticism, but it's still a criticism of a sort, & Jellico's comment that you've quoted is a direct response to that criticism
Colleagues often joke with one another even under difficult circumstances. Could Jellico have humored Picard by saying something like, "I will be keeping the center seat warm for you until you return"?
That depends. Could Picard have kept his very polite comment about how Jellico is undervaluing Riker to himself? I think he could have, & because he didn't mind his own business, Jellico chose to speak up about
everybody's business, & the truth he offered is that it's unpleasant business all around.
A pretty important component of that defense is not only that Jellico is now the captain, & Picard is not, but also that, as things look, Picard may never come back to be this ship's captain ever again, meaning Jellico could be there a good long while, & if Picard isn't taking this change of command seriously enough to get his effects in order, like a book sitting on the new captain's desk, then maybe he OUGHT to be.
Why does he leave his book & fish & whatnot behind anyhow? Is it because he assumes this is a temporary change of command? Because that's a pretty terrible assumption, & in a subtle way, a new guy coming in, to see the old guy didn't even pack up his shit, is a bit of a sly dig, that says " Don't get too comfy, I ain't gone for long." However, without Jellico rescuing him, he'd have been gone for good.
Look, I'm not saying Picard was wrong for speaking up about Riker. He had every right, & was very polite & dignified about, but it was a criticism, & IMHO Jellico had every right to push back with his own take on things, in an equally professional manner, even if it wasn't quite as dignified. Nobody is as dignified as Picard anyhow lol, but it needed saying imho, because Picard opened the door to judge each other's command postures