Yep. It was ok. The Iceman thing was very out of left field, but I'm not a huge Iceman fan and it doesn't really bother me. I mean, outside of some fan theories about why he has a lot of very short relationships with women the idea that Iceman is gay is basically not supported by any real evidence from the 50+ years he's been around (except possibly some Chuck Austen material I never read according to some people I've seen talking on the web, but Chuck Austen's X-Men run should never even be mentioned).
But, it could have been done worse. It was weird that Jean even brought it up, there was really no context for why she did, but the writing for the actual scene was ok. Honestly, its not even that big a part of the book. They just kind of bring it up without any build up and then move on. I really don't have a problem with Bobby being gay, I just wish it had been built up more, even if just in Bendis's books.
I suppose if someone is really opposed to Iceman being gay, the issue won't convince them that it even really makes sense. It really does feel like it comes out of nowhere, but the actual scene didn't feel super awkward or anything. All things considered I thought the actual reveal scene was done well, even if I'm not sure why they even did it, and that they could have set up the reveal much better by actually putting something in earlier issues to at least hint at it.