I don't smoke either. My brother used to smoke several years ago. He quit when his second kid was born. Before then, he would go outside to light up. What really bothered me was when he would borrow my old car, before he got his, and he would light up in my car. I don't smoke so i found it rather disrespectful when he would smoke in my car.
Now THIS I can relate to. My brother did the same damn thing. Not only that, but when we lived together he used to smoke IN MY BEDROOM.
Used to irritate the shit out of me.
Well, you could always ask him to
not do it, you know? If he still did it, it's got nothing to do with being a smoker and all the more with being an arse in general.
I've smoked for more then 12 years and, aside from people who complain without merit (such as being outside and complaining that you're smoking 20 meters away from them), I always accede to demands and I'll never, ever smoke in the house (or room) of someone who doesn't smoke. I will, however, ask first, especially if it's raining; some people don't mind much if you stand by the window. But even then, if they indicate they don't want people to smoke in the house, I will not smoke in the house. That's common courtesy.
