Look at it this way: Suppose you went home to your wife and although she looked the same, she said things and and acted in ways that were contrary to what you valued about her as a person. Would you be able to ignore that and just be happy that she was still fun to be with? I.e. If a movie contradicts something I see as important to the character of ST, how can I be entertained by the result?
I think that if you're comparing Star Trek to a spouse, you may be taking it a bit too seriously. But, we're all constantly changing, there isn't one of us that is the same exact person we were twenty-years ago.
My wife isn't the same exact person she was twenty-plus years ago when I married her. But after I had medical tests yesterday, the thing I needed most was for her to be "fun". We ended up at midnight, watching TV, eating lemon cake from KFC and laughing and having fun.
Star Trek, to me, is an escape from reality not a substitute. I watch it because I don't want to be reminded of the shitty world that is just outside my door. I grew up watching Kirk slay god-like beings, fighting a guy in a giant lizard suit, fighting a giant single-cell organism. Punching the bad guy, saving the universe and getting the girl.
I find the Abrams characters incredibly like the characters that I grew up loving.
Look at it this way: Suppose you went home to your wife and although she looked the same, she said things and and acted in ways that were contrary to what you valued about her as a person. Would you be able to ignore that and just be happy that she was still fun to be with? I.e. If a movie contradicts something I see as important to the character of ST, how can I be entertained by the result?
I think that if you're comparing Star Trek to a spouse, you may be taking it a bit too seriously. But, we're all constantly changing, there isn't one of us that is the same exact person we were twenty-years ago.
My wife isn't the same exact person she was twenty-plus years ago when I married her. But after I had medical tests yesterday, the thing I needed most was for her to be "fun". We ended up at midnight, watching TV, eating lemon cake from KFC and laughing and having fun.
Star Trek, to me, is an escape from reality not a substitute. I watch it because I don't want to be reminded of the shitty world that is just outside my door. I grew up watching Kirk slay god-like beings, fighting a guy in a giant lizard suit, fighting a giant single-cell organism. Punching the bad guy, saving the universe and getting the girl.
I find the Abrams characters incredibly like the character that I grew up loving.
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You said almost word-for-word what I was going to say.
The issue here though is at there ARE people who would compare their devotion and emotional attachment with Star Trek to that of a spouse. Thats where all of these fundamental break-downs and disagreements take place. You can't argue with people in that frame of mind, because the lens through which they view things is different. It's like tying to convince them that the sky is red.
What people fail to recognize who are in this position is that their personal desires and preferences cannot be met any longer. The expectations are too high. Times have changed, and with it the people in the next generations (no pun) and their values and what appeals to them. You can't continue to make Star Trek the way it was made 40 or even 20 years ago. It simply can't be done. Not and have any kind of viability for the future anyway.
But, there are some people who are so serious and so distraught that they'd rather see the franchise slowly die than see it evolve and change. They tie massive amounts of their own identity to what happens with Star Trek (hence the spouse comparison which flummoxes people like us), so any change that doesn't appeal to them and the agents of that change become Franchise Enemy #1. To heck with the future- they want Trek in a bottle, forever preserved their way. They'll argue to the death on these points, but the "battle" is really already over. The overwhelming response to the new vision of the franchise is clear.
These guerrilla tactics are all folks have left to continue the hope that someday it will be back to lectures about the prime directive, spatial anomalies, conference evaluations to figure out how to avoid firing torpedoes at Romulans, and pretentious ham-handed lessons about how superior humanity has become.
I've made it sound kind of harsh...but the pint I'm trying to make is that the people who have the visceral emotional reaction to JJTrek are typically these people. And if you are not cut from that same cloth, it's hard to understand their viewpoint, which is very real and passionate in their universe.
To answer the original question- there is nothing wrong with liking STID. I've been a fan for 35 years, and I enjoyed the film thoroughly. Was it as near to my heart as many of the others? No...nothing can replace the actors, characters, and settings I grew up with. But, I loved it for what it was and I came away TRULY entertained...which is all I ever ask Star Trek to do for me.
Once you star asking and expecting more from Star Trek, you're setting yourself up for more disappointment and anger than you should.
Cuz it ain't gunna happen!
