So, without any foundation of Star Trek knowledge that might lead me to complain about the contradictions in canon, the (mis?)characterizations, the whatever-it-is-veteran-fans-don't-like... I still got the sense you described: that it was a fun and exciting movie for as long as it kept playing, but was just missing something underneath. That was just my feeling. And now, watching the original series (with 60's special effects, dubious scientific equipment/explanations, and Shatner acting), I feel like I'm getting a lot more out of the show than I did from the movie. I don't know what it is that I'm getting, but it's definitely a lot of fun so far.
First of all, welcome to Trek!

I don't think it's fair to compare a two-hour-movie with a TV series, which offers much more time and opportunities for themes, character development, world building and different kind of stories.
Once you'll watch the TOS movies you might find that they aren't too different from this one. And at least the movie was good enough to get you interested in Trek and I think that's not a small feat with all the preconceptions weighing Trek down.
Let's hope you enjoy the next movie even more.
I do kind of role my eyes at this part. Pike's whole "You can graduate in 4 years. You can have your own command in 8."
Really? Once you graduate from Starfleet Academy, it only take 4 extra years before you're put in command of a starship?
Um, tell that to Harry Kim.

I think the idea was to get back to the feel of TOS where Starfleet seemed to be rather small organisation run by humans for the most part.
Now, a week later, all I can say is that I forgot most about it except the general feeling that it was ok, I might watch it another time if I get the chance and that's all. I wanted to be enthusiastic, exhilarated, happy about it, I just wasn't
I'm sorry to hear that. I did see it twice but I find myself still thinking about it, 1,5 weeks after seeing it. To me, it seemed to be quite rich in details and story opportunities not elaborated upon.
On the other hand, I can see the advantages of the Zero Punctuation method of anticipation, which is to abandon hope ahead of time and assume that everything will suck balls, such that if it doesn't it might be a pleasant surprise.

Well, there's something to be said for this strategy. Don't become one of the resident curmudgeons, though, ok?
Okay, its not TOS, its not TNG, its not DS9 and, thankfully its not that abomination they called Voyager. I understand, I get it. But I think too many Trekkies, Trekkers and Trekmonkeys are missing the ride here and allowing the old shows to color opinions. I have never in my life seen so many different versions of "Yeah, it was a good movie but..."
Well, I guess I should be grateful that you didn't even mention Enterprise.

While I didn't like Voyager and actually gave up on it in season 5 or so, I wouldn't call it an abomination. That sounds a bit too dramatic.
But there are two things here...first it IS a Trek film and we are lucky to have it. And two...and this'll piss a few folks off...is that I like the new Crew
I, too, liked the new crew a lot (and Pike, too) and because of that I'm willing to overlook the weaker points of the plot.
I can't help but think back to the first season if TNG. I remember a lot of conversations just like this one. Even into the 90s and the advent of the internet that argument still rages. I have to wonder how long this one will go on.
Forever or at least as long as the internet will last.
I've been more or less repulsed by some of the fan's attitudes, new and old, since the movie came out. This is not the trek or community I experienced even 6 years ago, or the one time I went to a convention with my father when I was a kid. All things in nature do die eventually, I guess the only question is what I shift my attention to.
Only since the new film came out? Hell, you're fortunate. I've been getting frustrated with various forums and communities since the mid-90s. It's not easy being someone who actually enjoys most of Trek in general, and constantly being confronted with negative comments about them and about the fans of them. Even in this forum there's constant shots at Enterprise, Voyager and Nemesis, among others.
So many Trek fans are just as bad as those non-fans who dismiss all Trekkies/ers in one ignorant sweep.
I kind of agree here. People are people, and Trek fans are, too (surprisingly

). Besides, meeting someone in real life and discussing with someone on the internet are two different things. I bet that if we were all to meet, Trek XI lovers and 'haters', we'd get along fine and maybe have a civil discussion over a beer or coke.
Don't take negative remarks on the net too seriously. The worst trolls often turn out to be poor buggers in real life (I once had this experience on another board). Just be kind and civil and grow a thicker skin towards the negativity.
(As an Enterprise fan I know what I'm talking about...

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