I've never been drunk, but then again, I'm 16. I can't say the same for the majority of my classmates though.
I don't drive, so me being drunk is not an issue.
However what is the point of drinking to the point you are drunk? Where is the fun in that? I got drunk because I has having fun and just had a couple too many. But people get drunk a lot and say it's "social" are nuts. I hardly ever drink and when I do it's a small party and normally a small amount.
I think "peer pressure" is one answer, even for adults. The last big social gathering I went to, everyone else at the party was actively encouraging me to drink more, despite my saying that my stomach wasn't feeling well and that I don't like to drink too much alcohol. But whenever I said these things they would treat me like I was a huge party pooper and I just needed to relax and have more fun. It was rather irritating. They kept pushing drinks on me and finally I just poured them out in secret to get them to stop bothering me. And these are my good friends!
However what is the point of drinking to the point you are drunk? Where is the fun in that?
I think "peer pressure" is one answer, even for adults. The last big social gathering I went to, everyone else at the party was actively encouraging me to drink more, despite my saying that my stomach wasn't feeling well and that I don't like to drink too much alcohol. But whenever I said these things they would treat me like I was a huge party pooper and I just needed to relax and have more fun. It was rather irritating. They kept pushing drinks on me and finally I just poured them out in secret to get them to stop bothering me. And these are my good friends!
I think that the reason this happens is that when people are getting drunk at a party, they want to know that everyone else at the party is drunk too, so that the next day nobody will remember the shameful things they did. But I remember!
I resisted because I did not want to drink that night, and usually I don't like having more than one or two drinks at all, but I can see how someone could easily give in to the pressure if people keep trying to convince them that they will have a better time if they keep drinking.
I think "peer pressure" is one answer, even for adults. The last big social gathering I went to, everyone else at the party was actively encouraging me to drink more, despite my saying that my stomach wasn't feeling well and that I don't like to drink too much alcohol. But whenever I said these things they would treat me like I was a huge party pooper and I just needed to relax and have more fun. It was rather irritating. They kept pushing drinks on me and finally I just poured them out in secret to get them to stop bothering me. And these are my good friends!
I think that the reason this happens is that when people are getting drunk at a party, they want to know that everyone else at the party is drunk too, so that the next day nobody will remember the shameful things they did. But I remember!
I resisted because I did not want to drink that night, and usually I don't like having more than one or two drinks at all, but I can see how someone could easily give in to the pressure if people keep trying to convince them that they will have a better time if they keep drinking.
Your story has absolutely zero to do with peer pressure or why people drink, and everything to do with the fact that, apparently, all your friends are douche bags.
This never happens at any parties I go to. No one cares who's drinking and who's not.
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