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Have you ever Been Cheated On By A Boyfreind or Girlfreind

Oh and I forgot about this one chick who destroyed me in front of a room full of people. We had started dating in 11th grade. We broke up and she wanted to get back together again. I agreed to go to a Christmas party with her so we could "talk" about our relationship. We went and I was the perfect gentleman all night. I held her hand, and was willing to give us another chance.

Well later that night she starts sitting on a guy named "Stacy" lap. At first I didnt think nothing of it, but as the night wore on I realized she was falling for this guy. Everybody knew we had dated and were going to work it out, but then they see her all over another guy. I, of course wanted to beat the other guy up, but I respected the parents of the guy whose party we were at and I stewed in the corner with my soda.

Well I took her home and she acted like I was a piece of crap. I pulled into her driveway and just wanted to talk to her and she jumped out the car and didnt even thank me for the ride.

Well anyway her "fling" with Stacy the dude with the girls name, lasted until New Years Eve. She called me up on New Years Eve and wanted me to come over. My mother practically pushed me out the door to go see this shrew. Well anyway I go over there and her mom was leaving for the night so it was just us two there.

She tried to make a move on me. Her plan was to have sex with me as a way of saying she was sorry for the way she acted at the party.

Well I didnt fall for that, I jumped up from the couch and told her goodnight and Happy New Year. She crushed my heart and embarrassed me and having sex with her wasnt going heal any of that so I left and went home and watched Dick Clark New Years Eve special and was happy.
 
So She was sitting on a bed with another guy.

Well were they doing anything that they shouldnt be doing when you entered the room.

Sometime we can be too quick to judge what is happening
maybe they were only discussing something

Geez that reminds me of my brothers exgirlfreind.
I was vivsting them in Albury and my brother went to work and l was wondering why his exgirlfreind was disappearing into the flat next door.
I alerted my brother that l thought something fishy was going on.
Well he said he would disguss yhos with her later after l left to go back to Melbourne.

Well geez l did feel sorry to want happened to this guy.
My brother decided to say to his girlfreind that he was off to work.
Well he wasnt
She left like useaul popping into the next doors unit.
You see the front door was open so my brother walkd in and seen them in bed doing some sexual activty.
Well he got this huy tossed him outside in the nude in front of the other neibours and punched him a couple of times.
That is why l say it is best to tell a person than let it get to this
 
Angela 0077, It was obvious they were "with" each other. Her demeanor when I walked in was icy and she pretty much dismissed me like I was nothing but a piece of lint so I pretty much figured out it was over.

Oh I got another one. I had forgotten all about this chick:

I started seeing her my senior year of High school. We went out a few times, talked on the phone for hours, etc. Well she had previously dated some gang member and dumped him for me. She needed a date for the prom and I told her I was going to go with her. Then all of a sudden she tells me she is not going so I tell my cousin I would go to the prom with her (my cousin weighed like 220lbs and was tall and couldnt get a date so I agreed to go with her).

Well then this she-devil calls me and tells me she will be going to the prom after all. I tell her I already promised my cousin and I cant break my word so she gets mad and hooks back up with her gang member boyfriend and takes him to her prom.

The next day she calls me and brags about how she gave her virginity to him and I could of had her if I agreed to go with her instead and I was a loser and weak and pretty much told me what a certain part of my body was like even though she had never seen it. She then hung up, laughing.

Well God dont like ugly and this chick acted ugly as hell.

Two weeks later I get a call from her. She is crying and telling me her gang member boyfriend dumped her and told her she wasnt that great in bed and he got what he wanted. I wanted sooooo bad to laugh and be mean to her, but I was nice and listened and even made a date with her. We went out and had a nice time, but I never got back with her because I still remembered how she treated me and I wasnt going to take another chance with her.
 
I am sorry l asked you for further imformation but at least you were able to tell me what her reaction was.
That is not nice of her to treat you like that.
You were only walking in there to see her and if you said that you had a couple of dates and were seeing each other she should have told you waht was goig on than strinf you along
That was nice of you taking your cousin to the prom.
You would have made her very happy.
I am glad you took your cousin than thi girl she did not deserve to go with you
To me l think you were way to good for these girls
Like l said it is a shame we have to go through this to find the right person.
 
Thank you. I was always seen as the "friend" to girls whose shoulder they could cry on when their loser boyfriends dumped them.

WHat burns my butt now is a dude I work with. He met a girl last summer, they just got married this past Feb and he has already cheated on her once and cheated on her while they were dating. She caught him asking another girl for nude pictures of her and also saw pictures he sent to this girl of him with an erection in his boxer shorts, but she stood by her man. She is now pregnant and I am friends with both of them on Facebook. She is living in another state at the moment and he is living here in KY. All day they send each other little messages on Facebook gushing on how much they "love" each other. I get sick of it because I know he looks at other wome n and cheated on her recently with a girl he met at a party. She is so blind that she refuses to think her husband has a roving eye. I just shake my head and hope that one day the truth will come out and she will see him for what he really is.

I told him he shouldnt have got married since he is cheating and he told me he just likes women and he believes God sent his wife to him. Whatever.
 
Geez this guy seems abit weird.
I think this guy needs help donig this to that girl and now she is pregnant with his child disgusts me.
I am sad that she didnt leave him earlier than get pregnant.
This bloke will never change his ways it will just get worse for her as time goes on.

Maybe she could delete his facebook account but knowing how to do it might be hard.
 
Well l also think these girls are lucky that they have you for them to have your shouder to cry on l am just concerned that thr last one you were talking about wont take advie.
Also you will find someone specail one day because it is always good to have a boyfreind who will listen than walk away.
 
Angela 0077 said:
Geez this guy seems abit weird.
I think this guy needs help donig this to that girl and now she is pregnant with his child disgusts me.
I am sad that she didnt leave him earlier than get pregnant.
This bloke will never change his ways it will just get worse for her as time goes on.

Maybe she could delete his facebook account but knowing how to do it might be hard.
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I love the rampant judgment and assumptions in this thread. Not only about those we've seen in our lives, but now about people we've only heard about from posters on he Internet that we've never met.
 
Kestra said:
I love the rampant judgment and assumptions in this thread. Not only about those we've seen in our lives, but now about people we've only heard about from posters on he Internet that we've never met.
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No judgment like hasty judgment, it seems.

The last couple of pages have been quite weird.
 
Let's get this back on point here...

If I fooled around with a friend's gf, does that count as me cheating technically? I wasn't in a relationship with anyone at the time, but it definitely violated my buddy's trust in me.
 
I'm wondering, how many people get "cheated' on because they think they're in a relationship, but all they really have is a f**k-buddy?

I know this is referencing fiction, but....

There was some episode of "Friends" where Monica (I think, maybe Rachel) was all upset because some guy "dumped" her. They had slept together a couple of times, but they had gone out, so to speak, only 4 or 5 times. So basically they were having sex fairly quickly into their "relationship." How is that a relationship? It sounds more like a serial one-night stands, but with the same people.

I'm ignorant on the subject, so excuse me, but is it really common for people to meet and talk, then meet a couple more time and have sex each time, and consider that a relationship? (okay, maybe not by a lot of posters on this board ;), but you know what I mean) And then be surprised to find out it's actually just convenient sex, now inconvenient for one of the people involved?
 
well i haven't cheated on a girlfriend and i haven't been cheated on. although since i'm an incurable pessimist i'd like add: "yet".
but if it ever happens i'd know about it real quick cause i've got this incredibly creepy ability to tell when someone is lying.
 
Angela 0077 said:
I cant beleive some of the stories l am reading smiles.
The way and the means on the way poeple behave is astounding
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You really have to stop Posting more than twice in a row. That's Spamming. You can use the 'Multi-Quote' or 'Edit' buttons to combine Posts.
 
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