Have you ever Been Cheated On By A Boyfreind or Girlfreind

[Emher]

Yes I have. My then fiancée broke up with me a month after I'd asked her to marry me. Found out later that not only had she secretly been seeing another guy, but she had been seeing him for almost the entirety of the time we'd been together. They're know married since a year back or so.

I've gotten over it, I don't really miss her. Rather I miss the person I thought she was. Still have some trust issues though that I'm working with. But I'll be damned if I end up alone.

 

[Trekker4747]

I've gotten over it, I don't really miss her. Rather I miss the person I thought she was. Still have some trust issues though that I'm working with. But I'll be damned if I end up alone.

Pretty much where I sit.

 

[kustirider2]

Nope. I've never had a boyfriend. Although it is something that worries me in future relationships.. that and I have pretty low self-esteem anyway.

I do think I kinda broke someone's heart though.. and I feel awful about it

 

[Emher]

^Try being 25 and still being a virgin. That's gonna be fun explaining when I get a GF again

About breaking hearts though...the only advice I can give is always be honest. If someone is intrested in you and you don't feel the same way, tell them. Don't lead them on for a long time to try and "let them down easy". There's no such thing, but it's a waste of theirs and yours time and emotions to not tell them early on.

And besides, you're a cute young girl, just work on feeling good about you, and the rest will get better. I haven't started feeling good about myself in general until the last few months really. And that took prescription drugs to get me started!

 

[kustirider2]

^ I'll probably end up the same, lol. It's not that big a deal though

Yeah. I kinda did that. I lead him on for quite a while, and then I just told him, he got angry and decided not to speak to me, and then when he wanted to, I got pissy and told him I didn't want to see him again... and now I do. I don't even know what I'm actually feeling.

I'm feeling better about myself than I did before, I've recently recovered from a long depression and various other phobias that stopped me going out of the house. I just take every day as it comes

 

[Emher]

Well at least I assume you didn't say yes if he proposed like my ex did Look, everyone makes mistakes. But as long as you learn from them it's alright.

 

[iguana_tonante]

MLB, you should really go out more and try to have more fun. Please. If anything, do it for us.

 

[Mr. Laser Beam]

^Try being 25 and still being a virgin.

25? Amateur. I'm 40. Not exactly something to be proud of, but there we are.

That's gonna be fun explaining when I get a GF again

What's to explain? If she cares anything for you, she won't mind. If she complains, move on. Anyone who gives you grief over that is not worth your time.

MLB, you should really go out more and try to have more fun. Please. If anything, do it for us.

Reeeeeeeeeeeaaallly....

 

[Marie1]

^ Nah, I don't go to bars either, but try places with lots of people with similar interests to yours.

I've never cheated, but I have been kinda stuck liking more than one guy at once... but it kinda solved itself when it turned out the guy that was giving me so much attention was dating someone, and then married her. Which is nice but... he should've been spending at least most of the time he was chatting with me... with her. You'd think. It's not like we were that good of friends or had known each other long. Fortunately, it wasn't the one that I was really leaning towards.

I've never been cheated on... but woe betide the person that does... if it happens...

 

[Dorian Thompson]

whoops. wrong thread.

 

[Angela 0077]

I haven't had a girlfriend since I was 12, and no, she didn't cheat on me.

You're kidding. You haven't had a girlfriend since you were 12? I always figured you for a ladies' man.

Do you know that a lot of christain men and women take a vowl not to have sex until they are married.
I was watching a show once and these poeple wear a ring until they meet the love of there life.
I think it is a good idea since we have so many deseases and also we have aids HIV.

I also have another story of a guy l went out with for 2 years we moved into this two story house with two other couples and it was great for a while until one of the couples was having troubles in there relationship.
The male left the house and the girl stayed at the house.
I didnt know this but my boyfreind was sneaking around with the exgirlfreind and l caught them in the act.
That was terrible to see.
I also had to work with this girl which made it worse.
I moved out a couple of days later and l was walking through this park and seen them they didnt see me
It made me cry and l went back in the direction l came
it is a terrible experiece and it is something which is not nice to see tow people you thought you could trust.

I think it makes you wise and careful with people.
At the moment l have a very trusting and loving boyfreind and he is someone l will never let go smiles

 

[Amaris]

Do you know that a lot of christain men and women take a vowl not to have sex until they are married.

I'm aware of it.

I was watching a show once and these poeple wear a ring until they meet the love of there life.
I think it is a good idea since we have so many deseases and also we have aids HIV.

Promise rings. Yeah.

I also have another story of a guy l went out with for 2 years we moved into this two story house with two other couples and it was great for a while until one of the couples was having troubles in there relationship.
The male left the house and the girl stayed at the house.
I didnt know this but my boyfreind was sneaking around with the exgirlfreind and l caught them in the act.
That was terrible to see.
I also had to work with this girl which made it worse.
I moved out a couple of days later and l was walking through this park and seen them they didnt see me
It made me cry and l went back in the direction l came
it is a terrible experiece and it is something which is not nice to see tow people you thought you could trust.

I hope you feel better.

I think it makes you wise and careful with people.
At the moment l have a very trusting and loving boyfreind and he is someone l will never let go smiles

I think everyone deserves to be happy. Best of luck to you.

 

[Angela 0077]

^Try being 25 and still being a virgin.

25? Amateur. I'm 40. Not exactly something to be proud of, but there we are.

That's gonna be fun explaining when I get a GF again

What's to explain? If she cares anything for you, she won't mind. If she complains, move on. Anyone who gives you grief over that is not worth your time.

MLB, you should really go out more and try to have more fun. Please. If anything, do it for us.

Reeeeeeeeeeeaaallly....

There is nothing wrong with being a virgin it is good that you are keeping your self for someone specail Emhu.

There is a lot of guys and girls who use and there was a girl l used to know and she lost her virginty to a guy and you see as soon as he got what he wanted he left her.

She was destaught and didnt understand that he could do this to her.
But now she has a wonderful boyfreind who thinks the world of her.
I think we all go through experieces until we meet the right one

 

[Angela 0077]

Yes that eposode happened a couple of years ago with that guy.

He wanted me back a year later and l told him l could do better than him smiles

Thankyou for the last comment l am very happy with my current guy

 

[iguana_tonante]

Do you know that a lot of christain men and women take a vowl not to have sex until they are married.

No shit, Sherlock?


Beside, I couldn't help but notice this:

At the moment l have a very trusting and loving boyfreind and he is someone l will never let go smiles

Wheren't you the one who started this very thread saying...

At the momment l am not sure if my boyfreind is cheating not.

Sorry, but something is fishy here.

 

[od0_ital]

Well, let's see...I cheated on a girlfriend in high school, because I'd heard she cheated on me already. So, that was all about the revenge.

Since then (that was back in late '95 into early '96), haven't cheated or been cheated on, though it seems to be close enough to count, I guess...

...went out with this one girl on a date. I thought things went well, but she wasn't interested in a second date. Turns out, it had been awhile since she had gone out with anyone, and used me for practice before goin' out with the guy she was really interested in. That was back in '02.

...the last girlfriend, we broke up, but we were still livin' together while I looked for a new place...and she started to see someone else. I knew she was wearin' thongs more often (thanks to her dog diggin' 'em out of the laundry & bringin' 'em to me), and the day before I moved out, there was an open box of Plan B in the bathroom, and we hadn't had sex in a month & a half. That stung way more than I think it should have, but I still didn't pick a fight about it, since she told me as my buddies & I moved my stuff out that she had a date that night set for after I left.

 

[Angela 0077]

Yes l did start the thread and made a mild mistake.
I should have removed that comment
It is nice you named me after a detective the name sherlock fits well smiles
I better get that magnified glass working proberly

 

[iguana_tonante]

Uhm, yeah.

 

[Angela 0077]

Smiles

 

[Luther Sloan]

Some folks are not happy unless they hurt someone else.